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41 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Swahili (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Originally from Chicago, I've been in SF for 3 years. I had no intention of being here this long, but life is funny like that. I love my job and am really starting to warm up to the Bay Area. So many happenings and natural beauty that begs to be discovered and explored. I like to play guitar, work out, laugh out loud and smile. That sounds so cheesy, but it's true. Cooking is a huge passion of mine. I have this thing for food cooked over an open flame. If you share that obsession, then we just might get along. My ideal match would be adventurous with a good general knowledge of the area and is willing to explore.

One thing I've recently gotten into is volunteering at the local soup kitchens and other non for profit organizations. I have been blessed with a great family, skills and resources, so it's time for me to give back, plus it's a great way to bolster my woefully anemic social life.

Being from the Midwest, I'm real easy to get along with. I studied Microbiology, but work in IT, on the consulting side of the business for the past 14yrs. I like long walks on the beach and horseback riding in the nude. Ok I am getting a bit weird with it, but who cares, it's the internet. If you're gonna respond, you've probably already made your decision .
What I’m doing with my life
On a daily basis, I work hard at being a better person, spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally.
I’m really good at
Lots 'o' stuff, but I guess my best is cooking, Jeopardy, playing guitar, and computers
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile
I am black.
It's great when I talk to clients on the phone then meet in person. Often I can see the wheels screeching to a halt as they say to themselves, "Hmmm, this guy didn't sound black, but yet he is........I'm confused and maybe even slightly disturbed"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Running with Scissors, Shawshank Redemption, Dinosaur Jr, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Kanye, Jay-Z , Jeff Buckley, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Minutemen, Sublime, Sound Garden and a Medium Rare Ribeye steak
The six things I could never do without
God, Andriod device from the Galaxy family, a PC with a lotta RAM and a good processor, food, air and water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Will I settle down in the Bay Area or will I go back to Chicago
Will I meet a nice woman and settle down
Will I meet that woman on OK Cupid?

(sensing a theme?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing the open mic @ Cafe International. Out to eat, cooking something new and tasty, watching a movie, or weeping softly wondering why I am still in San Francisco
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm ripped like Ned Flanders
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to, at minimum, expand your circle of friends. At best you want to meet a funny, chill, well mannered, respectful guy who has flaws, but works hard at addressing them.

Or you just want to go out to eat or get coffee and chat or see a movie. I'm easy