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44 • Seneca, SC • Cis Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–60
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 11:58pm
- Pansexual, Queer, Sapiosexual
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)
Feminist iconoclast, neurotic femme, polyamorous, easily distracted, and looking for new relationship(s).
I'm a cynical romantic with a competency kink.
Repeating/rewording some of that for emphasis, because it's important: feminist, queer, polyamorous, cynical but somehow optimistic.
Not too optimistic, since I've pretty much convinced myself that I'm going to die alone and be eaten by my cats.
Back in the rural south after a too brief sojourn in Philadelphia. I miss the city life, although I appreciate the quiet and dark. Maybe the howling coyotes are a bit much.
My life has been rebooted yet again in too few years. I'm not happy about that, considering the processes and pain involved. So again, I'm trying to rebuild this profile. Maybe it'll go somewhere this time.
I don't belong where I live; I never have. I'm the proverbial black goat who never bothered to fit in with the local sheep. Had I the wherewithal, I would go elsewhere--just not sure where yet. If you're wondering why this strange, faraway woman is checking out your profile, that may be why.
thinking. reacting. being.
trying to heal.
the way I'm usually carrying way too much stuff around, either figuratively or literally.
Name something, I'll have an opinion. It may even be intelligent or interesting.
I think I've always been a hedonist.
my freedom and a stable base from which to explore
my access to information
something to create
someplace to lie down in the darkness
My vision is terrible.
I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for, to be honest. I've been hurt badly, and I'm recovering, but I do know I'm tired of being alone all the time.
I'm not going to dismiss anyone for their religion or lack thereof; please do me the same courtesy. On the other hand, if you are an anti-theist or conservative evangelical Christian, we're probably not going to have much in common.
Look, this isn't my first go around on the OKC train. Hell, it's not even my second or third. I'm not looking for a pedestal or even pretty compliments. What I want is a connection, shared interests, something that moves you in the same direction as me. Then, maybe, if I read your profile and questions and find you interesting, I'll message back, and we can see what goes from there.
I'm cautious, yes. I have to be. It's just a thing I (and you) will have to deal with right now.
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