Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have no idea how to use this site. Dating in the wild tends
toward two scenarios:
1) Meet friend of a friend, instant chemistry, done
2) Slow burning awkwardness with someone you see on the regular,
Remember college? The days when you could meet someone in a bar or
a lawn or a roof or whatever and think, "Hot damn, isn't this a
fine physical specimen? Onward."
This site introduces the complexity of finding out that 90% of the
population, if asked, describes themselves using what appears to be
boilerplate madlib material filled in with earnestness and cliche.
Stick around long enough and learn of the remaining 10% the
terrifying number who are willing to admit that they have a "racial
preference" or consider women "obligated" to shave their
You are either a well adjusted human and this discovery is neutral
to good in terms of your romantic prospects, or you are a hopeless
case like me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to round out this game:
Round 1: What is your favorite color?
The Most Pretentious Answer: International Klein Blue
Round 2: What is your favorite meme?
The Most Pretentious Answer: Agriculture
Round 3: What breaks your heart?
The Most Pretentious Answer: Derivative Art
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Exploiting the "loveless, sexless marriage" loophole during
particularly unpalatable rounds of fuck/marry/kill.
I tend to reserve the "biblical, polygamous marriage" loophole for
Burying my own earnestness under a socially appropriate layer of
sarcasm and razor sharp wit.
Also my pics are over here
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am no longer capable of being entertained.
alien & aliens, peanut butter, avocados, cormac mccarthy, the
atlantic, mostly easy pop music (i do not try hard here), the
knowles-carter kingdom, spicy anything, green & white tea,
snatch, anchorman, galaxy quest, anything scary that is not torture
porn, guillermo del toro, christopher nolan, metafilter, pie
an entire pie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I would have listed my five things and then sex, but it turns out
there are levels of survival I had not quite anticipated
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make nihilism sexy to rockstars.
Hey baby. Hey.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Accepting that I am old enough to shun the living in favor of binge
watching tv/movies on netflix with my room mates.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I did the friends with benefits thing a while ago. The second time
this gentleman and I agreed to "hang out" we went to grab dinner
down the street. I was in the middle of recounting a story about
how I signed a saving it for marriage pledge during my
(evangelical) teenage years, when, to my horror, an older man at a
table nearby stood up and started to walk over to our booth. I was
absolutely floored that I was going to have to deal with this, that
I had offended some older conservative dude with all my talking of
sex and religion with such profanity to the point that he was going
to interrupt my "date" to check on the state of my soul when I was
just trying to get dinner before getting laid.
It was my dad.
IT WAS MY DAD.
He occasionally drives through nova for work. Was planning on
stopping by to surprise me after he grabbed dinner.
Instead we all had dinner. Together.
Me and my Dad and my new friend.
When new friend (finally) left for a minute to go to the restroom,
I of course burst into a "WHAT THE FUCK DAD WHY ARE YOU HERE?!" and
all he had to say was "That guy is a joke and you know it."
You should message me if
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you have a more nuanced version of humor than absolutely nothing
you can be charming.
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