I am optomistic, giving, and playful.
My Self-Summary
This is a new profile for me. I am in another profile with someone
else,
jaynroc ... but
unless you were looking for a guy ... you wouldn't find me. At
first I felt like an undercover agent ... but now, I'm just feeling
invisible ... so here I am :).
I am a married,
polyamorous, bi female, leaning more
towards women than men right now. Being
polyamorous, for me, means that I
believe myself able to love more than one person at a time, and be
in more than one relationship, without detracting from any of my
relationships. The main ingredient for success in this, and any
type of relationship, is good, open
communication.
Aside from that, I'm just a ordinary girl, looking for another
ordinary girl ... or maybe boy ...
What I’m doing with my life
Well, I no longer work from home and KJ (really liked that job, but
when their business went downhill ... so did mine). So now, instead
of working until the buttcrack of dawn, I get up BEFORE the
buttcrack of dawn to go to work. I like my job though, I get done
with work before some people have even started their day. This
should be an interesting schedule come
snow season, as I live in the
mountains. I love living
up here ... even when my tires freeze to the ground, and my locks
are frozen shut ... Other than that, I try to focus my energies on
being as open and honest as I can, with both myself and others,
taking life as it comes. Living one day at a time, seeing where
this leads me ...
I’m really good at
Putting myself in other peoples' shoes,
singing, looking for the bright side,
procrastinating, but obsessing
over getting things done at the same time.
The first things people usually notice about me
Bright bleu eyes behind bleu-tinted glasses, and full lips, almost
always smiling. Slightly off sense of humor. Or so I'm told ...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I honestly like a little bit of everything in all of the above
catagories ... especially
music. I love to sing it, listen to it,
entertain others with it (worked as a
KJ until recently). I like to have my music
accent my
mood at any
given time, be it sad, happy, angry ... and if I'm not listening to
anything at the time, I may find myself singing or humming
something that seems appropriate. A girlfriend of mine once told me
that I was "rubbing off" on her, that she was starting to have a
"
theme song"
for everything that went on in her life.
As far as food goes, I probably like a little bit of everything as
well, but I try to stick to a healthier menu. I love veggies, when
I cook I tend to throw them into almost anything. When I go out, I
like my choices to be full of them to, so I tend to lean towards
asain dishes, and
sushi or
salad bars.
My favorite movies tend to revolve around actors and actresses that
I like.
Jennifer Garner,
Reese
Witherspoon,
Drew Barrimore,
Kiera Knightly,
Scarlett
Johansson,
Rose McGowen (I love
Charmed),
Natalie Portman,
Kate Winslet, ...
Samuel L.
Jackson,
Morgan Freeman,
Bruce Willis,
Jude Law,
Matthew McCaunohey,
Jack Black,
Clive Owen,
Joaquin
Phoenix,
Jet
Li,
Jackie
Chan ... These are all names that I look for, and whether or
not I've heard of the movie, I will watch it anyway. As far as
themes, I love a good
horror film, especially the
asian horror ones, I
also love
musicals,
Disney and
theater. For TV I love
Law and Order,
CSI,
Cold Case,
Lost and, as afor mentioned,
Charmed.
With reading I like things I can learn from. I do most of my
reading on the internet these days, I love to research topics I
come across that seem as though they may interest me, but I know
nothing about.
The six things I could never do without
Love, peace of mind, physical touch, my family, open and honest
communiction, and entertainment.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to better my life, and the lives of those around me. And
women ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Singing, reading, loving, working, sleeping ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
That I am married, we have a
polamorous relationship, and
honestly, I would love to meet a woman, that I could hang out with,
and see what develops from there ...
You should message me if
You are an open minded, honest, clean, and decent person. You have
similar interests, or want to share new interests. You are a woman,
and are okay with dating a married woman, or you just want a new
friend. :)