I'm intelligent, funny, sexy, sensual, honest, ethical, loving,
passionate, romantic, live by the Golden Rule, spiritual not
religious, have three adult kids: daughter 33, daughter 21, son 19;
5 gran-kids by oldest kid ages 16-6, son has 2 1/2 son..Share
housing with oldest along with her 6 yr. old, & son w/his
girlfriend, yet we live our own lives.
I think one of the big things people do in being a couple is, as time goes by they get complacent, & usually without realizing what they're doing is TRY TO CHANGE their partner. I know a lot of you guys probably won't admit it & yes us females do this 2, maybe it's the natural shift of a relationship. I know guys r fixers & women r emotional & xpress selves by talking. Well, what I want from my mate is not a sugar daddy, not a take charge rescuer male, or 2 b fixed, but 2 accept & love me 4 who & what I am and vice verse, 2 just fit in with me, my family, my life, my work, a man that just seems to blend in with me & mine. I know this sounds like an impossibility yet, I believe if one wants something badly enuf & with good intentions 4 the better good, it will happen.This would man would also be my soul mate.
I grew up in Oakland CA, got my AA @ Chabot College in Hayward, CA. I've been married 3 X's & the last relationship I had lasted about 3 yrs. and was 2 1/2 yrs. ago. I really don't like using the word hate but, 4 lack of a better word people who r liars, cheats, or thieves r not welcome in my life. I lost "ME", many years ago on the way living my life. I have recently found me again & it took a long time & hard work 2 do this; 3 marriages, 3 divorces, 3 kids. I found I really like me, I'm a good person & I am unique and a special woman. I'm also a smoker & will quit when I'm ready......Think I'll b ready soon.
I think one of the big things people do in being a couple is, as time goes by they get complacent, & usually without realizing what they're doing is TRY TO CHANGE their partner. I know a lot of you guys probably won't admit it & yes us females do this 2, maybe it's the natural shift of a relationship. I know guys r fixers & women r emotional & xpress selves by talking. Well, what I want from my mate is not a sugar daddy, not a take charge rescuer male, or 2 b fixed, but 2 accept & love me 4 who & what I am and vice verse, 2 just fit in with me, my family, my life, my work, a man that just seems to blend in with me & mine. I know this sounds like an impossibility yet, I believe if one wants something badly enuf & with good intentions 4 the better good, it will happen.This would man would also be my soul mate.
I grew up in Oakland CA, got my AA @ Chabot College in Hayward, CA. I've been married 3 X's & the last relationship I had lasted about 3 yrs. and was 2 1/2 yrs. ago. I really don't like using the word hate but, 4 lack of a better word people who r liars, cheats, or thieves r not welcome in my life. I lost "ME", many years ago on the way living my life. I have recently found me again & it took a long time & hard work 2 do this; 3 marriages, 3 divorces, 3 kids. I found I really like me, I'm a good person & I am unique and a special woman. I'm also a smoker & will quit when I'm ready......Think I'll b ready soon.
