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35 Somerville, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 31–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I’m warm and friendly and definitely an introvert. I’m an engineer in many ways, but I also love people’s stories and listen carefully to them. I like rocking out in a dress, and wish I could pull off a slightly-boyish pixie cut and button-down shirt (the haircut doesn’t quite work).
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting outside whenever I can. I don’t even realize how much I miss it until I’m back in a campground and something in me settles back into place. I’d take mountains and lakes over the ocean, but really, they’re all good.

Wondering whether I should update this profile (it was mostly written in summer 2012, but while some of the facts have changed, I think it still captures me and how I see the world pretty well).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing things: travel, outdoor adventures, projects, my room. Baking healthy versions of cookies and banana bread that actually taste good.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I have a terrific smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: Leafy greens, especially Tuscan kale. The best dessert I've ever had was a blackberry and nectarine crisp, when I was living in a Berkeley house where wild blackberries grew in the driveway. Other colorful produce. Stovetop popcorn with salt and pepper and smoked paprika. Coffee Oreo ice cream.

Music: Girlyman, Indigo Girls, some Dar Williams, Dave Carter and Tracy Grammer.

Movies: Up, Juno, How To Train Your Dragon (can you tell I don't watch many movies?)

Shows: long ago, Wonder Years and Party of Five; then I went off to college and stopped watching TV and never found my way back.

Books: one of my housemates is a children's/YA librarian, and I read whatever she tells me to. The books that are closest to my heart are all YA books (A Ring of Endless Light and A Solitary Blue, in particular). The Curse of the Good Girl was eye-opening even as an adult (it mostly discusses teenage girls, but wow, many women could learn from it too). Human Wishes, by Robert Hass.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine, swimming, coffeeshop journaling time, good conversation, being known and understood, laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Setting up fun goals for myself (this might involve actually making a sticker chart). Religious belief and practice, and trying to find a church that feels like home.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying low-key hangout time with a friend or two, swimming after work, or baking cookies and chatting with whichever housemates are around. Or just wandering through the internet or reading a book, unwinding after the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a mixed reaction to profiles that include "I'm looking for someone who has their act together", or something along those lines. I like being happy and competent in my life, and most of the time I am those things. But life also includes the dark and uncertain times, and being able to walk through those with close friends (or a partner) is important to me. I realize I'm combining two somewhat different things here, but this still feels worth saying.
You should message me if
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you are generally positive, including about yourself.
you sometimes look at the world around you with wonder and delight.
you'd like to have a conversation or two, and see how things might unfold from there.

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