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slackavetes

25 / M / straight / Single

Astoria, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am skeptical, incorrigible, and self-depricating.

My Self-Summary

I like to talk, but don't like hearing myself. I read, write, and (occasionally) make movies. Coming to the all-too-common twentysomething realization that this "life" thing is going to be a little harder than I thought.

What I’m doing with my life

I just finished my first feature film. It's pretty great, I think. Working on another one. Ideally would like to write for television. Hour dramas.

I’m really good at

Pretending I know more than I do, picking typefaces, producing obscure historical references.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hair and, lately, the beard, which is technically also hair, but you know what I mean so don't give me that shit.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Amy Hempel, Alastair Reynolds, Samuel R. Delany, James Tiptree Jr., Sarah Vowell, Zadie Smith, On the Road, 1984, The Yiddish Policeman's Union, I like the idea of Hemingway, Cassavetes on Cassavetes

Movies: Badlands, The Godfather, Ghostbusters, The Big Lebowski, The Conversation, The Empire Strikes Back, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Killing of a Chinese Bookie, Primer, Rashomon, Blade Runner, Apocalypse Now, American Graffiti, Back to the Future, Hannah Takes the Stairs

TV deserves its own category: The West Wing, Battlestar Galactica, The Prisoner, Twin Peaks, The Wire, Deadwood, Friday Night Lights, Mad Men, old British television

Music: The Smiths, The Appleseed Cast, The Honorary Title, Broken Social Scene, Explosions in the Sky, Godspeed You Black Emperor!, Forget Cassettes, Minus the Bear, Neutral Milk Hotel, Beck, Brian Eno, Dylan, Carissa's Wierd, Johnny Cash, Leonard Cohen

Food: Don't eat red meat, but not a vegetarian.

The six things I could never do without

wine, television, women, words, orange juice, diet dr. pepper

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The size of the universe, differences between the sexes, ideas for stories, the weight on Abraham Lincoln's shoulders, the insanity of Revolutionary France, NASA

On a typical Friday night I am

watching a movie, or drinking at a bar, or drinking and watching a movie, or going to bed early because I'm tired from the week but will be ready for saturday.

You should message me if

you don't think you're 'stupid'
you like learning new things
or anything on here sounds good to you.