Let us start with the basics then, shall we? I am a transgender woman who is happily married in an open and poly relationship. My wife is also my Mistress and we have been together since 1995. In May of 2008, we added Her boyfriend to our marriage, a very handsome and sexy man. By day, I am a software developer, I run an award winning photography studio, I bellydance, and I produce and perform burlesque. I am kinky and have many, many fetishes.
I volunteer in local community theater projects, typically doing makeup whether the standard stage fair or prosthetic effects, and sometimes helping with wigs. I also do production still photography. I love going to and helping run conventions and even run a local women's play party at the local sex positive community center. If you're interested, ping me and I'll send you the details.
I am a really shy person, although I fake being an extrovert really well and sometimes, I completely miss social cues. If I appear baffled in those situations, it is because I honestly have no idea what it is that I did or said that was wrong. During high school that I said to myself, "I don't understand why people react the way they do towards me. I should figure that out." Thus began my long, and often times painful journey of experimentation to become less socially awkward.
Alas, I am still shy and I still have a hard time breaking the ice, even if it is just to become friends or if I find you attractive in some way. One thing I've started doing to help with that are "Drive By Compliments", where I message someone that I have some interest in. Is it a perfect way of dealing with my shyness? Not in the slightest, but it's what I have to work with right until I can come up with a new solution. :)
One last thing: I love kisses. Long, deep, passionate kisses that mess up my makeup.
I am creative, kinky, poly, and pansexual. And I refuse to give up the Oxford comma. Just saying.