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45 Hermitage, TN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 24
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Has kids, and might want more
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Let your mind go and your body will follow.........

Like most Nashvillians, I am a transplant. Came from the beaches and mountains of San Diego, CA. Loved it there but now am proud to call Nashville my home. At my core I am a kid at heart and I try not to take life too seriously.
Looking for simple pleasures in life, enjoying relaxing strolls or nights out on the town.
I am humorous, loveable, friendly, silly at times, trustworthy, shy at first, patient, considerate and compassionate and adventurous. I love animals - dogs, birds, fishes, horses, lizards, fill in the blank. I love cheesy jokes, witty jokes or just making a fool out of myself. I’m a fun, easy going person who is looking for someone to enjoy life with. I have a great relationship with my children and other children, sometimes I get along better with the kids then the adults. I believe when you are in a relationship with someone, you take them for who they are and everything they are and everything attached to them. I like to fish, camp and play airsoft with my son. I like building things, using power tools and watching football or hockey or soccer games. I have a really great job that I have been in for 14 years, every day I get to help people and I get to work on technology. I get the joy of making people's day better, there's nothing like always walking into a room and having everyone there happy to see me. And I get to work on technology - smartphones, computers, tablets, etc.....
What I’m doing with my life
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Working at a hospital as a network Manager, making good money, loving helping people, it makes me feel good. and at the end of the day it is really all about how that day of work has made you feel. and 99% of the time it is good! studying Microsoft tests. Spending time with my kids, trying to be the best Dad in the world. And searching for that one woman who I can be best friends with, who likes affection and cuddling at times, who can be funny and make fun of herself and of me, who by just looking at her from a far distance will get me excited to hold her, to be with her and who I can spend the rest of my life with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
solving problems, listening to people, having empathy, love, affection, laughing, looking at the world through a kids vision, small things fascinating me, enjoying any place I go, making the best out of any situation, being serious when needed but preferring silliness.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am human looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Edgar Allen Poe, John Creasey, Greek Mythology, Anne Rice, Stephen King, Inheritance books, Terry Goodkind, Piers Anthony, Game of Thrones Novels, JRR Tolkien
Music - FUN., Midnight Oil, 30 seconds to Mars, U2, Pink, Kelly Clarkson, Katy Perry, Clannad, Sinead O'Connor, Marie Brennan, PIL, Daughtry, Pearl Jam, Coldplay, Carrie Underwood, Evanescence, The Killers, The Script, Seether, Green Day, OneRepublic, Train, Adele
TV - The Walking Dead, True Blood, American Horror Stories, Spartacus, Game of Thrones, Star Trek, The Killing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Connor and Garrett - my two kids
Shadow and Ty - my two dogs
Internet connection and a computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how falling asleep is so easy for some people.
why bad things always happen to good people.
what my kids will do and what they will look like when they grow up.
how happy I am to be alive and in good health and a good job with awesome kids and awesome doggies!
I think about true love. How to do it right the next time, how to be loving, how to accept love from another, and how to have a healthy and functional relationship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
on the Fridays I have my kids, it is movie night, so we rent a movie or rent a video game but usually it is a movie.
on the Fridays I do not have my kids, a relaxing night reading a book or going out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Circus peanuts are the best! I can sit and eat a whole bag before I know what is going on.
Harold and Maude, Little Shop of Horrors, Legend, Heathers and Pump up the Volume are my favorite movies ever.
Ooooo, I just thought of something else. Ferrets are sooooooo cool!
You should message me if
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Someone that I can go out to sporting events with, five star restaurants, café’s, bars, movies and museums with! I like to read and enjoy different cultures. I am looking for a woman that is a happy person, someone who doesn't like yelling but is OK with disagreements. Someone I can hold a meaningful conversation with. An intelligent, strong woman but someone who likes to be soft too, who likes to be affectionate, holding hands, snuggling on the couch to watch a movie, kissing.