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48 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Rosa, California

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Albanian (Poorly), Yiddish (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay), Ilongo (Poorly)

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My self-summary
The difficult task of describing oneself…

Here goes. I'm healthy in mind, body and soul, adventurous, open minded, creative, confident (sometimes to a fault), loyal, honest compassionate, artistic, caring, well travelled, well read, romantic, sincere, a little goofy at times but yet still classy. I promise not to embarrass you in front of your mom.

I have an inappropriate relationship with Netflix and sometimes I cheat on her with Hulu…Cable and I had a thing for years and despite it being incredibly satisfying, she wanted to complicate the relationship with contracts and exclusivity...we don’t hang anymore.

It has recently become apparent when nervous, I have a tendency to over use 10 dollars words punctuated with the word Fuck....somehow managing to sound both smart and stupid in the same sentence....and now you know my poker "tell".

A few things I enjoy:
Cooking without recipes, mixing cocktails, making sangria that even Spaniards wholeheartedly endorse, amusing myself and some others, biting yet subtle sarcasm spelling traditional words in unconventional ways and sleepwalking naked.

What I'm searching for:
I’m not expecting perfection. If I did I’m sure I would be alone for a very long time. We all have our luggage from past relationships. I like to consider mine to be carry-on. What I’m searching for in a soul-mate is someone with an open mind, someone who expresses what they're feeling inside. Express, not repress. Be able to meet me in the middle. Someone who will still flirt with me when we're 90!
What I’m doing with my life
I try to challenge myself every year. Here are few of my New Years resolutions from 1989 as an example.

-Start a fennel shirt wearing trend.
-Do something about hair metal
-End the cold war
-Share Y2K concerns
-Rescue 2 Aardvarks
-Learn drum part to every Chopin song
I’m really good at
Cooking
XOXOXO
Honesty (That's a lie)
eating and walking fast
Riding a motorcycle
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm always smiling. Whether it's a happy smile, a sweet smile, a thoughtful smile, a know it all smile, a I'm the boss smile, a amused smile or even a up to no good naughty smile I'm always smiling. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies:
The Big Lebowski, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Shawshank Redemption, Michael Clayton
Books: In Cold Blood, Hunt for Red October, Brothers Karamazov, The Stranger
Food: Everything... especially spicy
Music: Gary Jules, Live, Dave Matthews, Billy Holiday, Yo-Yo-Ma, The Black Keys, Buddy Guy, Burt Jansch, Seasick Steve
The six things I could never do without
Coffee in the morning
My daughters smiles
Spicy Peppers
My close friends
Laughing
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How did the Lemur get into the pudding cups?
Grape-Nuts – it contains neither grapes, nor nuts.
How I would kill to win the Nobel Piece Prize.
90%- random thoughts about things that have nothing to do with whats going on around me.
10%- Dirty minded thoughts.
I might have those last two backwards?
On a typical Friday night I am
Leaping tall buildings in a single bound.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Waldo once found me. I know six words that rhyme with "purple". House cats obey my commands.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're.....honest, witty, entertaining, adventurous but still have scruples, enjoy your place in life and the path you have traveled, believe in kissing as a mingling of the souls, you're a bit of a dork and kinda wanna make the world a positive better place.

You should NOT message me if . . .
You are married...(cause if I really like you, I don't wanna share your sexy girly bits with your husband, well... maybe I would), flakey, a bad tipper or don’t use your turn signals, seriously . . the turn signal thing is a total deal breaker.