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slider57

45 / M / Straight / Single

Tualatin, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:03pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Thank you for looking at my profile, yes I'm still single, no I don't live with my parents, no I don't have kids, no I don't smoke, yes I'm am looking for someone to settle down with but I hope that doesn't mean we have to stop living our lives either....
oh yeah, if you smoke(anything) then forget it, I wont date anyone that smokes..I dated a smoker once, wont do that again...sorry to all those who smoke, i'm sure your lovely and all but not for me...and those that do drugs too, forget it, not my lifestyle either.

I want to be the one that makes you smile, I want you to be the one that makes me smile,
This year I'm buying a house and getting out of my condo...

I dance, I sing occasionally(karaoke), I watch movies-netflix, I rarely watch tv,

a friend posted this on Facebook so i thought i'd share it:
DATING GUIDELINES FOR THE MODERN MAN:
1.) Pursue the woman you are interested in, or someone else will.
2.) Be up front and honest about your intentions to avoid mixed signals. Verbalize them
... to her.
3.) Courtesy, chivalry and manners are noticed and appreciated (by the right people).
4.) You don’t have to be rich to date. You can do activities that don’t require money
(i.e. hiking).
5.) Find little ways to SHOW her that she is special to you apart from other females.
6.) Physical intimacy is different for everyone. Respect her limits as she should respect
yours.
7.) Be who you are flaws and all. Our pet peeve is when you turn into someone
different three months later.
8.) Introduce her to the things you love (food, hobbies, etc).
9.) Quality time is necessary to get to know someone.
10.) You can’t truly know someone if you only talk about yourself or don’t talk at all.
Ask questions. She will be flattered and you will be more attractive to her.
11.) Don’t give up on a female who considers you to be a great friend…sometimes we
just need a little time to warm up.
12.) Stop wasting time on unworthy females. The right ones will give back as much as
they take.
What I’m doing with my life
right now, I work full time, I also teach (country)dancing at a local club, I also DJ weddings, schools, and other parties..on the weekends mostly.
sunday nights are card nights with friends so if you know how to play pinocle or want to learn then we'll gladly show you, we also have dinner and laugh and joke around alot.
tuesday, wednesday, and thursdays are usually pretty quiet unless i'm out teaching or dancing.
friday and saturdays....who knows...it changes so much..
Sundays: and then we rested, usually at home or out watching a movie with a friend....early show is best, less lines.
I’m really good at
dancing...parallel parking and a few other things....you'll have to ask to find out...
The first things people usually notice about me
dont know, no one ever tells me...lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
too long of a list, I listen to just about any kind of music.
i dont watch TV, i'm too busy nowadays to even care to watch. i do watch alot of netflix though...any favs?
The six things I could never do without
something to read
music
movies
my computer
someone else to share things with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why my feet hurt so much....lol
On a typical Friday night I am
either out dancing, DJ'ing, teaching dancing, staying home or just hanging out with friends....oops and i forgot...HAPPY HOUR!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I actually liked both of the Princess diaries movies...lol...shhhhh dont tell anyone though!! ....lol
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you must live in oregon or washington state, for those of you who live outside the country, while I am flattered that you look, I'm not about to move out of the country nor am I going to marry someone just so they can get a green card...
if you're looking for someone to spend a lifetime with...then I'm yours.