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43 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
Native American, White
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Self-summary... uggg... why do I feel like I'm the new guy in a huge group therapy session?

(I apologize ahead of time... I wrote this whole thing at 4AM... I tend to get a bit loopy this late at night.)

My friends say I'm easy-going... but I'm not sure that's a correct description... too many people claim to be this... I think I just figure out my place in a situation quickly.

I think I'm funny... (Much of my humor is self deprecating... I've got a lot of material to work with.)

I'm quick to laugh... (I may have took the line "Laughter is the best medicine" too literally...)

Honorable... (At least that's what my friends say... Honestly, I'm just rotten at lying. Consequently, I suck at poker.)

A trickster... (What can I say... I like to push buttons... Although, I have ruined a fair number of pranks with uncontrollable laughter...)

And I'm rather curious... (I push buttons because I need to know the why of it...)

(Personally I take it with a grain of salt, but if your into Myers-Briggs: I'm an INFP/INTP (F/T often flips on me... maybe I think too much about feelings).)
What I’m doing with my life
Breath'n and Dream'n

I'm trying to get better at: my job, playing the Bass, communicating, surfing/boogie-boarding, baking sweets, yoga, understanding, and making my small corner of the world more fun.
I’m really good at
Daydreaming... I got full marks in school on this one.

I also make a good margarita, virgin or otherwise.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall... not FREAKOFNATURE tall... but I am noticeable.
I smile a lot... (I often do it when I'm nervous.)
I may look a bit like a hippy, but rest assured, I'm not (I am after all a paragon of personal hygiene).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jonathan Livingston Seagull (My first book report), Neuromancer, A Song of Ice and Fire, All You Need is Kill, and the works of: Neil Gaiman (Sandman), Piers Anthony, Brent Weeks, Richard Feynman, Stephen Hawking, and Brian Greene. (My major was Physics after all...)

Movies: The Fifth Element, Fight Club, The Empire Strikes Back, The Evil Dead 2 (1 is ok, the new remake... crap!), Scott Pilgrim vs. The World (alt ending... Knives Chau is the one!), Princess Mononoke (Ashitaka was an INFP), and Howl's Moving Castle (Basically anything out of Studio Ghibli is GOLD!)

Music: OMG... where to begin... Let's start with old to new (to me): JIMI!!, The Beatles, Queen, The Stones, The Police, Oingo Boingo, U2, Depeche Mode, Soundgarden (Chris Cornell!), Van Halen, Propellerheads, Dead Can Dance, Bush, Green Day, Lenny Kravitz, Doves, Daft Punk, Mstrkrft, Elbow, Jamiroquai, Jimmy Eat World, The All-American Rejects, Garbage, Queens of the Stoneage, The Black Keys, Muse, Home Town Heroes (Under the Influence of Giants, & AWOLNATION), 30 Seconds to Mars, Kings of Leon, Boys Like Girls, OneRepublic, The Airborne Toxic Event, Single File, Gorillaz, The Naked and Famous, The Maine, White Lies, Empire of The Sun, Placebo, Fun., Gary Clark Jr., Silversun Pickups, The Asteroids Galaxy Tour,... there's more...

Video games: Too many to mention... (I'm just too embarrassed to actually list them out...)

Food: It'll just be easier to list the things I DO NOT like: curry, avocado, insects, fish heads, chicken feet, fertilized duck eggs, and brussels sprouts.
The six things I could never do without
The Obvious are so often overlooked here, so I'm listing 9 things!

Food (Please exclude the "food" items listed above.)
Clothing (Levi's, Kenneth Cole, and Macy's)
Shelter (AC!!)
Friends (I love you guys!)
Family (I love you too... I have to!)
Love (the platonic AND non-platonic kind)
And the Internet... (and all that entails)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The way things work (or don't work)...
On a typical Friday night I am
Hummm... varies, but typically one or more of the following:

Video Game Veg-fest
Standing in line at Singlebarrel... (Yummy Gin Fizz...)
or cleaning house to prep for a Saturday night Dinner Party
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was forced to join choir as a kid... hated every moment of it... but still wish I could actually hold a note...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Contact me if your looking to expand your circle of friends a bit (I'll get you in on our group's dinner parties) or if you looking for "The Nice Guy" as your long-term dating interest.

Also contact me if you just want some banter. Witty and otherwise.