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31 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23, 2014
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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World-weary but optimistic, romantic straight-ish cis guy. Unfocused creator. Usually wearing a tie. Looking for a challenge. I want to change my mind. I want to be one half of a kinky team.
What I’m doing with my life
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I play my guitar every single day. I'm writing erotic and other types of fiction. I like to maintain a small number of close friendships.

I have many goals and ambitions, none of which have anything to do with work. I'm told it's a very European attitude.
I’m really good at
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Laughing, making others feel comfortable, listening and giving my full attention.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"That guy will just not stop laughing."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Anberlin, Arcade Fire, Bon Iver, Brand New, Butch Walker, Coheed and Cambria, Daft Punk, David Gray, Death Cab for Cutie, the Decemberists, Fleet Foxes, Florence + the Machine, Fountains of Wayne, Frightened Rabbit, Girl Talk, Great Big Sea, the Hold Steady, Iron & Wine, the Joy Formidable, Jukebox the Ghost, LIGHTS, Mae, Motion City Soundtrack, MuteMath, the National, Neko Case, Nick Drake, Parachute Musical, Phoenix, Radiohead, the Shins, Tanlines, Tegan & Sara, Tokyo Police Club, the War on Drugs, Weezer, Wye Oak, Yeasayer. There's some more.

Books: My first love is Shakespeare. My second love is Dante. My third love might be Victor Hugo. Or Tolkien. I know - DWM.

Food: I'm an above average cook. I specialize in pastas, chilis, casseroles, etc. When going out I look for sushi, Thai, Mediterranean, and just about anything else.

Webcomics: Questionable Content, XKCD, Oglaf.

Podcasts: Chop Bard, Hardcore History
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Olive oil
Guitar picks
My unlimited Metro card
The Oxford comma
The CrashPad
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to avoid the monogamy trap.
You should message me if
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-you're equally at home in an East Village bar or watching Netflix in bed.

-you lipsync when you wear headphones.

-you're a lady-type person with armpit hair.

-we're best friends, we just haven't met yet.

-you're a world class cuddler.

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