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slitlyundrstood

30 Portland, OR Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just want to start by saying that I am not looking for anything romantic in my life right now, I'd just like to meet some interesting and fun people.

I'm laid back, fun, social, and hate being bored. I like to cook and looove to eat! I like to go to concerts and dance like a fool. I'm really good at it! I am striving to learn more and more about myself. I have really started to break out of my shell over the last few years learning what really makes you happy can do that. I would say that I am a laid back, calm and patient person. I like to sit back and observe people a lot, especially when I first meet them. I can say that I am sincerely honest and that I try to be impeccable with my words.
I also really like beer. It's a big part of my life and it's a big part of the culture around here. It's not that I like to sit around and get drunk all day, it's a part of my lust for good food and beverage. There is such a good range of beers to try in this town and I can't help myself.
I'm really working on self improvement right now. I have come to realize that I'm not perfect and that there is always something you can improve about yourself. It's probably one of the hardest undertakings of my life so far. Being introspective isn't fun, but it is necessary.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently moved to Portland and just ended a bad relationship. We moved here together and I discovered he had been cheating on me for some time compulsively. I'm trying to work through that and move forward, so yeah I'm pretty damaged and depressed. Being alone in a new city and losing your love is pretty heartbreaking. I want to find new things to do and for now just make friends. I'm trying to understand why people do such hurtful things to the ones they love. Most of all I'm trying not to blame myself for his actions and accept that this is what it is. He didn't do these things because of me, he did them because of him. I know it's a depressing rant but if you really want to know what I'm doing with myself its that. It's a hard thing for people to deal with so if you can't hang with that then I guess it's not the right time for you and I to meet.
I also work in a Belgian beer bar and i spend a lot of time there. Trying to work full time in a new city and make friends doesn't really work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being awesome! Wink wink! I think I am best a being a good friend. That whole being honest thing is more beneficial than people realize.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a tall lady so I usually stand out in a crowd. I'm very friendly and willing to have casual conversation with random people and I guess that shines through because it happens all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am a total Harry Potter nerd. I like to read historical fiction.
I have been wanting to read more of the classic literature, Hemmingway, Dickens, The Bronte Sisters, and the like. for some reason we were never required to read them in the Crappy public school I went to.
Some of my favorite movies are The Big Lebowski, The Princess Bride, Chicago, Witches (I heart Anjelica Houston), Stand By Me, Cinderella, Donnie Darko, Beerfest, and The Christmas Story. I really love Dexter, House, Chopped and Anthony Bourdain No Reservations. I like a lot of different music and go to shows whenever I can. Right now I am loving Foster the People. Open up my mp3's and you will find the likes of Ween, Jenny Lewis, Phish, Leftover Salmon, My Morning Jacket, the Avett Brothers, Ratatat, The Grateful Dead, Boombox, Big Boi, Aesop Rock, and the list goes on and on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well I am currently without a lot of the things I thought I needed in life. Turns out sometimes you've got to live with what you've got.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do tomorrow. If global climate change really is mans fault or if it's part of the natural ebb and flow of the ecosystem? What can I do with this veggie to make it even tastier? Do I have enough money to go see this show? When is stem cell research finally going to be totally legal? Where did I put my keys? How do I meet new people in a big new city?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work in the service industry so my Friday nights usually consist of serving excellent Belgian beers to people. If I'm not too exhausted I'll go out for a beverage with a coworker.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a secret love for french fries. Greasy, starchy, fried, golden straws of deliciousness!! I almost never order them but you better watch out! The french fry bandit always seems to be around when you are not looking.
Also I am a sucker for the accordion. I wish I had one.
You should message me if
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Know how to have a good time, are not a downer, and have a good sense of humor. If you can relax and have a a good conversation my ears are always open. Please, if all you want is a quick bang or you are going to send me a dick pic right off the bat, don't bother. I may not be the classiest lady you have ever met but I do have standards. I'm just really looking for some copany and companionship. I'm pretty lonely in this new city.