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30 M Jersey City, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:57am
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Here's the bullet points:

- I work as a software developer at a startup (not one of the crappy ones that's a social network for hamsters or something, a really good one with a positive effect on society). I may be just a cog in a machine, but it's an awesome machine, so I'm fine with it.
- I'm originally from San Francisco. The area I grew up in was equidistant from the gay neighborhood and the hippie neighborhood, so I lived right in between two SF stereotypes.
- I love going to the movies, and I probably go more than is healthy for me. Let's just say that one of the reasons I chose my current apartment was that it was within walking distance of a movie theater.
- I like to take bike rides when the weather permits (my favorite ride is along the Hudson river between battery park and the George Washington bridge). I also dabble in tennis.
- I speak French. I've been slowly forgetting french words for years though, so this will be less and less of a valid qualification as time goes on.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to come up with good ideas for things to make/build. Mostly failing to follow through on the actual making/building part. The idea part is much more fun.
I’m really good at
Reverse-engineering things. Within 5 minutes of starting to use OKCupid, I was already thinking about how it worked under the hood.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the shaved head. It has a tendency to reflect light in interesting ways.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: As a rule of thumb, I mostly listen to rock music made before I was born. Beatles, Stones, Zeppelin, Clapton, etc. Not exclusively though. Lately I've been trying to listen to some stuff in the top 20 list on Spotify just to know what the hell everyone is talking about.

TV: I'm a religious Stweart/Colbert watcher. I also like The Simpsons (yes, even the modern day episodes), Archer, Brooklyn Nine Nine, and a bunch of others too. As far as shows that are over and done with, I'm a big fan of Futurama, Arrested Development, 30 Rock, Parks & Recreation, Archer, Breaking Bad

Movies: There's far too many to fit here. My top 3 are: Almost Famous, The Usual Suspects, and The Matrix. I could probably spend hours making a list of favorite movies, so if you want to know more, ask.

Books: I read mostly non-fiction and sci-fi. I like everything Michael Lewis has written (Moneyball, Liar's Poker, The Blind Side, etc.), Ender's Game, Snowcrash, and plenty of others. I just finished reading "This Town" by Mark Leibovich (it was exactly as infuriating as I expected it to be).

Food: There's no one particular kind of food I like best. I am a fairly adventurous eater though; if I see something on a menu that I've never tried before, there's a good chance I'll order it. This has produced mixed results, but I strike gold often enough that it ends up being worth it.
The six things I could never do without
Assorted gadgetry (iDevices, various computers, etc.)
Public transit
Good walking shoes
... and a sixth thing (seems lazy to put something here that I ACTUALLY can't live without, like food or shelter or oxygen or something, so I'm leaving it blank)
On a typical Friday night I am
Decompressing from the workweek, either at happy-hour with coworkers or at home in front of the television (sometimes you just need to shut your brain off).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You like nerdy guys with senses of humor.