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slocum
59 / M / gay / Single
Paris, France
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- Middle Eastern, Black, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
- Height
- 5' 8" (1.75m).
- Body Type
- Skinny
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Rarely
- Drugs
- Sometimes
- Religion
- Atheism and laughing about it
- Sign
- Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Education / Academia
- Income
- —
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes dogs
- Languages
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am emotional, provocative, and talkative.
My Self-Summary
Well, what can I say about myself? I'm an aging gay man on a
website which is obviously for the young and beautiful, so I guess
you might say I am an infiltrator... and therefore either eternally
optimistic or masochistic, whichever...:0)
I am fluent in [French] and English, I like all things artistic...and have at different times in my life done acting, dance, photography (portraits and nudes) drawing, video and I am an inveterate letter-to-the-editor writer and have even had about ten or more published in international magazines and newspapers (my fifteen minutes of fame?)
I like people who are original thinkers, that do not necessarily follow the crowd; I adore [rhythm and blues music], generally try to avoid rap (altho occasionally there is one that I like...) and if I could have the man of my dreams he would probably be around 30, slim, hairless, a bit intellectual and charming. But that's the dream... I am quite capable of changing some or all of the criteria depending on the person. Et voila!
I am fluent in [French] and English, I like all things artistic...and have at different times in my life done acting, dance, photography (portraits and nudes) drawing, video and I am an inveterate letter-to-the-editor writer and have even had about ten or more published in international magazines and newspapers (my fifteen minutes of fame?)
I like people who are original thinkers, that do not necessarily follow the crowd; I adore [rhythm and blues music], generally try to avoid rap (altho occasionally there is one that I like...) and if I could have the man of my dreams he would probably be around 30, slim, hairless, a bit intellectual and charming. But that's the dream... I am quite capable of changing some or all of the criteria depending on the person. Et voila!
What I’m doing with my life
Wasting it by spending time on sites like this!
I’m really good at
Talking!
I also have a good eye for photography.
I also have a good eye for photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes? perhaps my eyes cause I had operations on them in the past
and sometimes this gives me a strange look...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
The Barbarian Invasions... a French Canadian [film] that won awards
everywhere and is one of the most ADULT films I've seen in ages...
all you young kids going ape over the latest "in" movie like Lord
of the Rings or whatever should try something with substance... and
NO special effects (really!) Also like [Almodovar, Frears],
etc.
Recent other good films: Before Sunset, Kinsey, L.I.E.(Long Island Expressway)
music: anything R&B...also Joni Mitchell, Rickie Lee Jones, Janis Joplin, early David Sereda (who??) and Lewis Furey (who again??)
Books: Margaret Atwood, Christopher Bram, Stephen Fry, early Gore Vidal, E.M. Forster, James Baldwin, Steinbeck (East of Eden) etc
Recent other good films: Before Sunset, Kinsey, L.I.E.(Long Island Expressway)
music: anything R&B...also Joni Mitchell, Rickie Lee Jones, Janis Joplin, early David Sereda (who??) and Lewis Furey (who again??)
Books: Margaret Atwood, Christopher Bram, Stephen Fry, early Gore Vidal, E.M. Forster, James Baldwin, Steinbeck (East of Eden) etc
The six things I could never do without
friends,
food,
cable tv (to avoid the crap)
books,
toilets,
my dildo?
food,
cable tv (to avoid the crap)
books,
toilets,
my dildo?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to avoid most of humanity, especially those chatting away
(loudly) on cellphones
On a typical Friday night I am
trying to decide what to do...(to cruise or not to cruise, that is
the question)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I have a hard time saying no...
You should message me if
You wanna come visit [Paris, France]; you don't mind older men -
even if it is just for friendship; you have a good sense of humour;
you like to cuddle
