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slow_n_down

40 M Tucson, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Mar 24, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Moved to Tucson after a long time freezing my ass off in MN.
I came here for school and a change in scenery.
Looking to make friends and more.

My priorities are that Life comes first. Work is second. I believe that there is more to life than work.

I’m typically very laid back, and can be a big smart ass at times.
I certainly am not a type A personality.

If guys were literally dogs, not just figuratively, I’d be a cross between a Shepherd and a Lab. Very playful, loving, affectionate, understanding and forgiving. Yet I’m also am extremely protective of my friends.

I can appear to be a bit distant at times when Introversion and Aspergers kicks in. It's just me being lost in thought.

I can come off as shy at first. Trust me. I'm not. Just ask more of me and I'll open up.

I guess that's the basics.
If you want to know anything, just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for that balance between work and play and relaxation and indulgence and simply living life.

I need no convincing to go lounge poolside in Mexico or Vegas. When it's too cold outside to leave the comfort of my couch, I camp out watching movies all weekend.

I've traveled a lot.
I'd live in London, Prague or Puerto Vallarta if I could find work there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastinating and being lazy.
Focusing and getting shit done when motivated.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told that my face lies. I look angry or sad or grumpy or unhappy when I'm not. Again... it's the aspergers.
At the same time... it does help my poker face. :)

I’m comfortable in silence, yet I can talk your ear off if I get too much caffeine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book wise... I read David Sedaris, Jeremy Clarkson, Anthony Bordain and whatever else grabs my funny bone.

Daily it's... Gizmodo (and sister sites), Thought Catalog, The Minimalists, Zen Habits, Mark Daily Apple, BBC news, Economist and various British rag sheets and random blogs on a daily basis.

My humor leans anywhere from cynical to slapstick. Thus I watch Anthony Bordain, Ace of Cakes, Good Eats, Mr. Bean, old cartoons, Pixar movies and The Three Stooges whenever I encounter them.

For some odd reason, I'll stop to watch any silent movie also.

Music wise... I'm all over the map.
Lately, I've been rotating Gogol Bordello, Gary Clark Jr., Kaki King and Infected Mushroom.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) the dog
2) the jeep
Both have been all over the USA and Mexico these past 3 years.
3) the ability to laugh at and get past the seemingly insurmountable hurdles encountered in life
4) the warm hugs and hearing "I missed you" when you see an old friend.
5) traveling
6) passport - need it to travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I do think, I think way too much and too often.
About anything and everything.
Then there's times I'm just off meditating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Still figuring things out as I settle into Tucson.

The normal hanging with my friends, out to movies, eating, relaxing, drinking and bullshitting until the sun comes up.
It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nothings really private with me. You want to know, just ask.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My brain fumbles at times on what to say... so first moves are appreciated.

If you have the willingness to laugh with or at least at me when I'm acting like a juvenile delinquent... that would be needed.
If you can do that and like to make me laugh and smile too, better yet.
If you can handle not being the sole focus of my existence.
Can you accept that I may only give you 2 days (or hours) notice that my wanderlust has kicked and I'm off to "where ever" until I get back (when ever that may be)?
Or your are willing to pack a bag, grab the passport and come with.
If you can go with the flow when being my friend or more... whether it's the random life I lead, the aspergers, or whatever.