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31 Brooklyn, NY Man


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  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 24
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
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Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm Brendan. I play guitar and koto. Been playing noise music (+ trad. Japanese music) for the past few years but am starting to get back into songy territory. Programming is my day job - it's cool but I don't identify with it so much any more. Teaching would be nice!

Recently started going dancing - it's not a pretty sight but I'm workin' on it, ha.

I play like I'm super dark but I laugh very easily. I'm pretty active in general and have dabbled in most things, but I have a soft spot for art and music that's particularly dark / surreal / harsh / weird / etc. (Balance that with palatability - like, I play noise music but I'm not tryna hear someone bow an amplified pine cone for half an hour. Like god damn, give your audience something to work with, you know?) That said, I'm also into lots of things that aren't dark etc.

I tend to move around a lot but NY's been treating me pretty well and I'm hoping to stay here a long time.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm really interested in the shamanic qualities of music. All music is ritual music. (I'm also presently doing web stuff remotely for a multinational. You probably have something of theirs under your sink. Nothing thrilling, just paying the bills.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most any kind of street food. If you know of a good takoyaki place in NY, let's go!

On rotation lately: Mykki Blanco, Kool AD, Grouper, Jesus & Mary Chain, Le1f, Arca, Friendzone, Nicki Minaj, Joy Division, Emptyset, Kyary Pamyu Pamyu, How to Dress Well, Bill Orcutt, Chieko Mori, Chameleons UK, Bauhaus, Prince, FKA Twigs, Elite Gymnastics, Okkyung Lee. LOVE a good metal show but I don't put the records on too much any more. (My bad but I miss mosh pits. :/ )

Movies and TV shows and books are also cool, I like those too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
music sex love going out the usual
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Unconventional upbringing has got me a little on the feral side. Tried to mitigate this with a career path for a while, but have eventually come to accept it and enjoy it. Fuck a boring life anyway, you know?

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