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slysf

34 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a San Francisco native though I expatriated to Oakland 2 years ago.

I can sing, not dance, but I still do it anyway when the
moment's right. I love to cook, hike, make really good cocktails,
entertain friends, get dressed up, and/or stay in for a cozy movie night.
Saturdays are great for adventures.

I love meeting new people, going out to Karaoke, and rainy morning hikes for wild mushrooms.

Finally back on two wheels so I love putting around town on my motorcycle.
What I’m doing with my life
Riding my bike a lot.
Creating stuff.
Craft distilling.
Working out every morning (not in a gym)
I have a great career designing software, but that's
just my day job.

I also love these things:

Writing
Creating things/food/experiences
Photography
Infusing moonshine
Setting things on fire
Free Diving
I’m really good at
fixing things, jacking all trades, making people laugh, having fun, advice, blowing glass, making things.
fixing people (get lots of practice as a wilderness first responder)
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a geeky Rockabilly guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Charles Bukowski, Phillip Pullman, Robert Jordan, Neal Stephenson, William Gibson, Ian M. Banks, H.P. Lovecraft, Chinuan Achebe, Herman Hesse, George RR Martin, Patrick Rothfuss, Douglas Hofstaedter, Brandon Sanderson

Comics: Warren Ellis, Rick Veitch, Alan Moore, Frank Miller, Y! The Last Man, The Walking Dead, Penny Arcade, Ex Machina, XKCD, DMZ.

Movies: The Fountain, Star Wars (original trilogy), The Secretary, 3:10 to Yuma, Ghost in the Shell, Lawrence of Arabia, Paths of Glory, Bullitt, Jin Roh, Moonrise Kingdom, Night of the Hunter, Cape Fear (original), Romeo is Bleeding, Akira, Perfect Blue, Millennium Actress(or any other Miyazaki film,) Bruce Campbell movies.

Shows: Archer, Dr. Who, Game of Thrones, The Mighty Boosh, The IT Crowd, The Office, Firefly, The Walking Dead.

Music: Camper van Beethoven, Tom Waits, Juno Reactor, Vivaldi, NiN, Deltron/Del, Jurassic 5, Public Enemy, Oingo Boingo (or any Danny Elfman,) Swayzak, Hank Williams Sr, Nena, Hyrule Symphony, Reverend Horton Heat, Nekromantiks, Dengue Fever, Gogol Bordello, Tool, Chris Isaak, Concrete Blonde, Crystal Castles, Daft Punk, David Bowie, Devo, Faith No More, Fotoshop, Leonard Cohen, The Magnetic Fields, Marilyn Manson, Massive Attack, MGMT, Passion Pit, Sigur Ros..... I like a lot! :)
The six things I could never do without
my friends are my family
my pets
a good book
a project
a sense of adventure
new things to learn
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the most inappropriate place to have a tea party.
On a typical Friday night I am
out on some sort of adventure with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Apparently when I was 8 I wanted to be a hacker. This is particularly unusual since that was 1986. I wrote this story:

Once there was a boy.
He had a computer.
He jammed into a telephone system.
He jammed into the pest control.
When people wanted pizza they got their house sprayed with cockroach killer.

The End.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to go for a bike ride.
You want a belay partner.
You love karaoke.
You want to ride bikes.
You want to visit all the locations of columnar basalt in the world.
You have style. I don't care what that style is, just have it.
You want to go dog walking.
You're driven and passionate about what you do, whatever it is.
You're GGG.
You know and identify with the terms poly and kinky.