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41 Cologne, Germany Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay), Urdu (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an oddball mainstreamist who likes to think he knows what he wants when he does.
Work does take up time which I'd rather spend on things like some outdoors pursuit, visiting friends & family, reading, cooking and such like. I've lived abroad for many years and decided to return to Germany aeons ago.
What I’m doing with my life
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Chasing great stories and hoarding future memories. Work is important to me, but my spare time is my spare time which I also use for some me-time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Aaah, books. I'm a shelved bibliophile: am just getting back into Wallace Stegner these days ("Angle of Repose" is fantastic) and have just finished "Harun and the Sea of Stories" by Salman Rushdie and yet another hilarious Pratchett. Recently started on "The Black Swan" by Nassim Taleb but after a couple of chapters of not very insightful self-aggrandizing, I decided to give this much hyped-book a miss.

Food: The prospect of excellent food is probably the strongest domesticating force in the universe. Add decent wine and I'll do whatever is asked of me.

Music: I think I've just understood Trip Hop. Only took me 10 or 15 years, but I couldn't care less about the genre. Generally, faves are pretty much anything between bluesy/jazzy stuff with a lot of loungy tunes thrown in, a bit of electric swing and some doo-da-hop-dedop-dadada-doo-doo-dooooo-dada-bebop. The ecclective mix they play on Radio FIP has been (and is) an education in music to me.
Sometimes, the most beautiful thing is the sound of an open car window when the night passes by.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from the usual (friends, family) the outdoors in general, well-told stories, good food, wine, treating myself to whatever, travelling, quality(!) chocolate, random encounters and escapisms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what motivates a person or group to do something that I can't contextualise or figure out immediately.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
donning my butterfly-man costume to free imprisoned roman caterpillars from my neighbour's dungeon where he feeds them to penguins to improve their guano output.

On less typical Friday nights I'm doing whatever.
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well, that's quite up to you, innit.