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smalldarnhair

45 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:13am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My username is an anagram for my actual name. This is my self summary. There are many like it across the internets but this one is for OKCupid. It's kind of ridiculous attempting to summarize a person and all of their complexities in a little tiny box but here's the best that I have to offer right now.

I am not a mind reader or a svengali and I don't like mind games but I will be there for you when you need a hand or a favor. I care deeply about my family and friends and I recognize that I can't help everyone. I have somewhat high expectations of my friends and don't really care for drama or indecisiveness. Laughter, kindness, compassion and an appreciation for the beauty this amazingly wonderful world has to offer are traits I seek in others.

I love finding new places to eat and going there with friends or family and talking to my parents who are truly two beautiful people, each in their own uniquely wonderful ways.

I've been very fortunate to get to do things that many people only dream of doing and for that I'm very grateful, but I still have lots more spectacular and amazing gifts to share with the world. Some of those gifts are just starting to emerge.

Dating Ipsum: http://laurenhallden.com/datingipsum/

Oh yeah, and I'm not at all into Burning Man. It's a cool idea but I have no desire to go to the desert to camp. I'm sure this will turn lots of people away. I'm fine with that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working at a notorious fruit company in Cupertino, CA. Still making and selling music online here: http://mp3.belief-systems.com/ and here: http://nudephotomusic.com/
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making electronic dance music, picking awesome music and movies to listen to/watch and finding a great place to eat in the Bay Area.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really have no clue as to what people notice about me right off the bat. I hope that some of the people I meet here will let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is a ridiculously long list I've got to grab from my old Myspace profile. I'll just say tons!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My awesome cats. My folks. My good friends. My iPod with tons of music on it. My amazingly quiet and sound isolated bedroom where I can escape the cold, or the light when I stay up a little late and need to sleep during the day. I'm a vampire by nature. The day job forces me into the light but I would prefer to go to bed just before the sun comes up. It's hard to find good jobs that support this time arrangement though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The absurdity of life and all of it's material trappings and how much I covet silly things that ultimately have no meaning in the grand scheme of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at a bar with friends, seeing a movie, having dinner at a restaurant, watching a movie at home or just downloading movies or music on the couch. I don't need to go out all the time anymore. I used to go out almost every night but I'm less restless than I used to be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing. That's why it's private the way it should be. :)
You should message me if
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You don't take yourself to seriously, you can have a laugh at silly jokes, don't require a tremendous amount of maintenance and are not psychotic, don't suffer from BPD (this is borderline personality disorder, btw) and you are not a sociopath. For a definition of what I mean by sociopath, look here:

http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html