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45 F Virginia Beach, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:43pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Other, and very serious about it
Capricorn, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for a wonderful man to share my journey with, and who would also like to share his journey with me. Our goals are to bring more joy and passion to each other's lives as we go down the path together. Nobody's allowed to drown (lose your SELF) and we both know deep inside that the other will never push us under (we support each other).

What kind of qualities are important in this companion? First: Gratitude. A person who truly appreciates the value in everything around them, and chooses to pay attention to it and honor it...this person will be happy, joyous, open-minded, and never judgmental. You should be ready to woo me. The courting dance is a beautiful things and really helps to build interest in each other. You are honest even when it is hard to be, genuinely respectful of women, intellectual, stable, generous, and kind to all others. You have a very good sense of who you are and what matters to you.

Major integrity and genuine kindness are essential. You make a conscious effort not to harm others through direct or indirect actions. You are confident with your body. You enjoy intellectual banter, and refrain from turning it into a competition. You keep me engaged and smitten. You love that I am comfortable with my femininity, and you know that I am a one-man woman.

If this sounds like you, please contact me. I have a whole lot more to share (and I know you do, too), and I look forward to getting to know you.

My Myers-Briggs Personality Type is ENFP (Idealist/Champion)(The Inspirer)
This is what that means: Highly energetic driver of change who craves novelty and expressions of strong emotion. Natural leader, especially in the arts. (Walt Disney was ENFP.)
Idealists (NF), as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development. Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best possible self -- always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey. Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.

Idealists are sure that friendly cooperation is the best way for people to achieve their goals. Conflict and confrontation upset them because those things seem to put up angry barriers between people. Idealists dream of creating harmonious, even caring personal relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along with each other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal harmony might be a romantic ideal, but then Idealists are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the "not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists than the world of material things.

How do you feel about a redhead in stilettos who can carry on an advanced conversation in myriad topics, walk into a room full of strangers and come out with new friends, is well-dressed, well-spoken and well-received, exists for the purpose of helping others, and has a nearly insatiable sex drive?

Life is beautiful. I bring it in a way that's true to who I am (without wasting an ounce of energy on seeing myself through the eyes of another). I'm real, I'm genuine, and I'm honest. I'm interesting, and keep things upbeat. I am happy doing any activity, with the exceptions of sky-diving and bungee jumping, because I believe that it matters more with whom you are sharing the activity than what the activity is; that determines the kind of memories you will create.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am researching the relationship of numbers, nature, geometry, sound, rhythm, harmony, cosmology, energy, spirituality, creation, and ancient religious texts. When my research is complete, I will publish a book.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding and empathizing with the perspectives of others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. Definitely my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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John Grisham, Eckhart Tolle, Baldacchi...I do not watch TV unless it is a movie on HBO...sushi and french food are my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: My understanding and acceptance of my Self.
2: My spirituality and relationship with our Creator.
3: My two daughters (19 and 17).
4: My personal freedom.
5: My chocolate lab (Molly).
6: My motivation to find the TRUTH.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
number patterns, science, math, physics, physiology, theology, psychology, structure of music and language, energy, love, unity, purpose, balance
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully taking a break from my work to have some real FUN! Wanna join me? :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My views on marijuana: It is a natural healing substance provided for us by our Creator to maintain our health. It cures cancer (US Patent #20130059018 filed March 11, 2013) and other cellular abnormalities. Making it illegal is a violation of our constitutional right to pursue health.
You should message me if
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You are at a point in your life and intellect where you question the validity of the things you have been taught and are ready to open your mind and discover your truth... and you would like to share that journey with an equally curious and intelligent companion.