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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 5
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Rather not say
Has kids, and wants more
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Hi there,... and thanks for reading about me. I am a guy living in a 40's ish body but am older chronologically,... so.... I think, act, and do things like someone way younger then me.... which,........ is why I enjoy younger women. The last serious woman I dated was mid 30's and that seems to work pretty well. Oh... and I seem to have a problem with ageists. I have more energy than guys or girls 20 or more years younger then me.... How do I know this? Cause I have played lots of sports with guys and they all tire before me.... and with women... well.... lets just say I have so much physical energy women even as young as 26 got tired out being with me. That's how. Why is that...NO idea but I think it is genetic.
So..... I am now in NYC 3-4 days a weekfor work and play. it is nice. When I am not here I love to go to several places where I have homes and properties. In winter I love my ski house,... near Manchester VT. Bromley Ski Area.... is right there. Oh.... and amazing shopping too... this area also would be nice to raise a family... which I would do if my future wife and I choose that.
It is a place where there is amazing beauty; the finest school district in the whole state; excellent shopping; resort activities like golf, skiing, hiking, camping, fishing, boating, tennis, lakes, and close proximity to Airports,... cities like NYC, Boston, and Montreal. I also love my lake home... right near Lake Champlain on the NY/VT border. That is beautiful in the spring summer and even the fall. When I'm not there or in the City,... I love to go to my time share in the Dom. Rep. it is great in ther winter and spring.... otherwise I like Orlando FL. where I have a place right near Seaworld. So why do I tell you this????.... NO!..... not to impress you. It is just that I like to travel and want someone who likes these kinds of places that's all.
Now... what is the kind of woman I want to meet,....? Basically I look for someone who balances me and connects with me on emotional planes, intellectual depths, physically (ie sexually), and spiritually. I search for a lady who is well rounded and worldly,...; but the most important thing is that she is nice and smart. Someone who thinks before doing.... cause everyone has some baggage....yup,... me included. I do not do well with women who are highly reactive and have explosive anger. I hope to locate someone who loves the country; yet enjoys the city and likes to visit these types of places. I wish to find someone who is beautiful...( I tend to like tall women 5'6-5'10) although this is not a mandate as height is not a moral imperative; ....someone who stays in shape, likes doing the things I enjoy.. (tennis, hiking, running, golf, biking, camping, singing, kissing, making love,....(which is different then just sex), backgammon, chess, dancing, fine dining, world travel, deep meaningful discussions on a plethora of topics and spending loving time together)....OH and did I say TENNIS!!!!!
I am tall, good looking,...(well that is what everyone says), have an athletic extremely active and stay in great shape, am very into a multitude of sports, have a high libido, and would like to meet someone similar and who desires to have children and build a family together. But,.... that said,... it is (again) not a mandate.... I am most interested in finding my life partner more then anything. And if you have kids... that is fine too.

I offer a wonderful lifestyle, great conversation and caring deeds I am the type of person who loves to help and if you are too then that is great,....( A while ago,...I went on a medical mission and operated on 90 people in 3 days); and most recently did a benefit concert ( where I sang for about an hour and a half) to raise money for an orphanage in Uganda.... in a place called Jinja; I have a wonderful magnificient house (which ..... in all honesty needs someone special to make the structure a loving "Home", I have the luxary to work or not work (which is not something to be ignored), I could move if me and my mate wanted to develop a life which necessitated this; financial security, world travel, excitement, adventure, and more love and caring then you could ever imagine... (when I am in love and commited to that partner).
I hope you will read about me and be interested to write me and reach out to learn more,... and not be superficial concerned primarily with what I look like. I hope you will talk with me first and learn about me as a man to decide whether or not to engage in something more and vastly more substantive. I hope you will.
PS,.... I am not married. The ring I have on is my Masonic ring as I am a free mason.

I am very intelligent, and multi-talented
What I’m doing with my life
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What I am doing with my life presently is crafting something new for myself and building my life with the optimistic belief that I will ultimately meet the love of my life,... my mate and partner,... and wife. I save my money and work on the household projects necessary to maintain my several properties.... my wonderful home... the gardens I am making,.. my lake homes and the landscaping it takes to make them beautiful.
I participate in activities of life. I exercise,... remain active,,... read voraciously,.... do chores,... travel... visit my family,... date when I can,... (ie when I find someone fascinating).... sing, practice my instruments, learn new songs, attend church, and,....well,.... keep looking for that person who will WOW me and make me want to love them and they me,............... Forever
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A plethora of things,... Firstly I love my work and are fairly aedpt at my job. It pays me well too. I play tennis well,... and are into basketball,... very good in the forest and love to do camping expeditions, I cook well and enjoy many culinary cuisines,... love shushi, oysters, Italian dishes, Indian, Chinese (gotta love Dim Sum),... Scottish food,... etc.
I sing and used to have a band,... I write, read alot, play multiple instruments, are great with children good at home projects, very handy around the house, great at making fires,... landscaping,... and have an eye for visionary types of projects.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, smile and intelligence. The way I talk with others,.. reach out and make friends with strangers, show kindness to all... particularly the elderly, little children, and the handicapped.... which I do in a non-patronizing manner. Oh,.... and that I know alot about alot,.... and can discuss a variety of topics intelligently and openly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love books by Dan Brown,... Read them all... I love Robin Cooks work,... John Steinback,... books about history,... Harry Potter Classics,... John Kennedy books.
I love Forrest Gump... my favorite,... the Notebook, Its A Wonderful Life, Tom Cruise's movies, Russel Crowe, Tom Hanks, Sandra Bullock, and Hugh Grant.
I love The Beatles, Eagles, America, CSN, David Cook, Daughtry, Gavin Rossdale, Jazz, Mozart, Vivaldi, Handel
I enjoy most foods
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books to read,... My daughters,... ( love spending time with them) which, sadly, doesn't happen very much,....spending time at my lake home... camping in the wilderness,... traveling around the world and learning about other cultures,... culinary delights
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My work,... my ability to help people,... building my life and maintaining my homes and properties.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Would have a date,... hopefully,... and do something interesting,... intellectually stimulating, and romantic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that I am extremely sensitive,... loving and enjoy tender hearted movies,... love taking long walks holding hands,.... and groom myself meticulously.... dress very well and dance elegantly
You should message me if
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You are well educated,... like what I wrote,... are desiring to have a family and children,... enjoy similar things as I,... are around the ages of 35-early 40s old,,... someone who might like to sing, cook, love to dance, do good deeds for the world, have a global perspective, love travel, play tennis,... stay in shape....(this is important and I do not want someone who does not take care of themselves.... Ie overweight and not athletic. If you like to read in bed,... enjoy sex alot and want to share in that expression,.....(but be prepared to be more satisfied and pleasured then you could ever imagine,) enjoy learning at all times,... love camping,... tennis,... etc