Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm divorced with 2 kids and looking to find someone to share life
with. I want it all. I want to find someone who can be my best
friend and lover. I want to wake up and have coffee together on the
back porch. I want to go to the beach and enjoy a sunset together.
I want to spend more time in conversation than watching mindless
TV. I want to find someone who appreciates the little things
someone does for them.
Like everyone else, I hate writing about myself. These sites are a
challenge because you basically have a couple pics and paragraphs
to describe your whole life and hope someone makes enough of a
connection to write back. It doesn't help that there are so many
douchebags on this site (I have female friends and they've showed
me some winners). I don't write longwinded first messages because
of so many non responders but if I message you it means I'm
interested in talking and hopefully meeting of we click.
I don't take a lot of selfies and most of my pics are of my kids.
The picture in the suit is the most recent. I do grow a thin beard
sometimes like in some of the other pictures
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in the process of hitting the reset button. I've been separated
3 years and legally divorced 2. My ex and I get along for the most
part with regards to the kids. I have a job, multiple cars, a
house, and a stable life. I don't do drugs and I am a social
drinker, never been arrested and I have a high credit score. I've
finally eliminated some debt I was carrying due to my divorce and
legal fees. I am working on living a happier and healthier life
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a very considerate person. I enjoy helping others. If I'm going
to the store I will text you and ask if you need anything. I feel
that little things like that are important
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like trying new things. I recently tried sushi and Thai food and
liked them. I'm not a huge vegetable fan but I'm working on that. I
like comedies but I'm up for other types of movies as well. I like
a lot of difference types of music
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My 2 kids (son is 4 daughter will be 6 in Jan)
iPhone (I hate this but it's true)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and my kids future. I think about what I can do better.
Some of the decisions I've made in life. When I'm going to meet the
person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have my kids every other weekend so some nights are spent with
them, others are open. I have my kids half the time so you will
need to understand that they are my number 1 priority in life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty much an open book but let's get to know each other a
little bit before we start trading dirty secrets
You should message me if
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I will message you back, even if it's to say I'm not interested
since that is the respectful thing to do.
If you are looking for something with substance.
If you want to actually meet in person
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to
be their option"
Who are you looking for?
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