Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


48 Alameda, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:06am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here goes…I have a 7yo and share custody with his dad. My son is a big part of my life but I also very much value adult time and think it vital to staying balanced and having a healthy relationship.

While I have embraced the West Coast life style I still have a little East Coaster in me. If you were to ask me if I am a jeans or dress girl I would probably say jeans, although I definitely like to get dressed up for a night out! If you were to ask my friends, they would describe me as independent but I think life is best when there is someone special by your side to share it with.

What I am hoping to find in my next relationship ....someone I can learn with and who wants to continue to grow both as an individual and in a partnership. Someone that is a good communicator, patient, and not afraid (or at least willing) to be vulnerable. He is health conscious, likes a little adventure, is affectionate, honest, emotionally and financially stable, values family, and enjoys kids. Someone who doesn't sweat the small stuff and appreciates the good stuff. I am looking for a partner that enjoys planning a date or weekend away together. I also love when a man has a sense of style.

Things that make me son’s laughter and his classic one liners (they just keep coming). A yummy kiss, intimacy, soft touch. Sharing a nice dinner and a bottle of wine, taking a stroll on the beach, a cuddle on the couch, cooking and entertaining. A hike, bike ride, run, yoga, playing softball, a workout at the gym, or just being outside makes me feel energized. A good sense of humor and even a little sarcasm (in moderation) keeps things fun. I love to travel and enjoy photography but have not done much of either in the last 6yrs (you can guess why). I like both the simple and finer things in life and hope my partner can appreciate both. Listening to live music outside on a sunny day is a favorite and I appreciate most types of music. Being in the presence of good energy can always put a smile on my face.

While I am not looking to jump into a relationship, I am at a point in my life where I would like to meet someone that is also seeking a long term relationship and is open to see where this experience may take us.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying today. Exploring the world through my son's eyes. Finding ways to better understand me and the world we live in. Practicing being in the moment. Oh, and that thing called work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating the uniqueness of each individual.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite movies...One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Beast of the Southern Wild
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son
Good friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where the future will take me and who will join me on that adventure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my son or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am allergic to cats. ):
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are open to a serious relationship. I am not interested in someone who knows they only want to casually date or hook up.