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48 Alameda, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:34am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Here goes…I have a 7yo and share custody with his dad. My son is a big part of my life but I also very much value adult time and think it vital to staying balanced and having a healthy relationship. I grew up on the East Coast and while I have embraced the West Coast life style I still have a little East Coaster in me…so be nice. ;-)

Seeking a sweet guy with a bit of an edge. Don’t mistake an edgy guy for a wild boy cause that is NOT what I am interested in. My sweet and edgy guy is someone I can learn with and who wants to continue to grow both as an individual and in a partnership. He likes to get out and try new things and enjoys a little adventure in his life. He can laugh at himself and doesn’t worry about what others think but he also knows the time and place for things. A guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff and appreciates the good stuff. He can take initiative and knows how to live life and treat a woman well. He is health conscious (but not a fanatic), honest, emotionally and financially stable, values family, and enjoys kids. He is someone that is a good communicator, patient, and not afraid (or at least willing) to be vulnerable.

Things that make me smile.... my son’s laughter and his classic one liners. A yummy kiss, intimacy, passion, exploration. A romantic dinner and a bottle of wine, a stroll on the beach, a cuddle on the couch. Trying new things and pushing my comfort zone. A hike, bike ride, run, yoga, softball, working out, and just being outside makes me feel energized. A good sense of humor and even a little bantering can keep things fun. I love to travel and enjoy photography but have not done much of either recently. Interested in learning how to rock climb and recently began exploring the taste of bourbon (not at the same time). I appreciate both the simple and finer things in life and hope my partner can as well. Listening to live music outside on a sunny day is a favorite. Being in the presence of good energy can always put a smile on my face.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying today. Exploring the world through my son's eyes. Finding ways to better understand me and the world we live in. Practicing being in the moment. Oh, and that thing called work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating the uniqueness of each individual.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movies...One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Beast of the Southern Wild
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son
Good friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where the future will take me and who will join me on that adventure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with my son, friends, or a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am allergic to cats. ):
If I am taller than you we probably won't be a good fit. I am 5'3 and usually where 2-3 inch heals.
You should message me if
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While I am not looking to jump into a relationship, I am at a point in my life where I would like to meet someone that is also hoping to find a long term relationship and is open to see where this experience may take us. Not interested in a hookup.