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38 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:01am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Immersed in the art of becoming.

Sensory-oriented with a potentially severe tendency toward off-the-wall humor.

Boldly going in gentle tones, and with an open heart.

Words to speak on my behalf:

"Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Eating, loving, singing and digesting are, in truth, the four acts of the comic opera known as life, and they pass like bubbles of a bottle of champagne. Whoever lets them break without having enjoyed them is a complete fool. ~Gioacchino Rossini

"Without deviation from the norm, 'progress' is not possible" -- Frank Zappa

"Poetry is just the evidence of life. If your life is burning well, poetry is just the ash." -- Leonard Cohen
What I’m doing with my life
A few hats: Broker/importer of spirits from Italy. Professional musician. Journalist. Loving life!
I’m really good at
Being here now

Patience (unless you're stoned to the degree that it severely impairs your ability to make simple decisions)


Delivering pleasure

Painting with sound

Cooking a vibrant Italian meal and serving it with a soul-stirring wine

Dental hygiene. I'd rather sleep in my clothes any day rather than opt out of flossing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A few books: Illusions (Richard Bach), Where Can Peace Be Found? (J. Krishnamurti), Autobiography of a Yogi (Paramahansa Yogananda), The New France (Andrew Jefford), Jitterbug Perfume (Tom Robbins), Oneness (Rasha), Horizons Touched - The Music of ECM (Steve Lake/Paul Griffiths)

A few poets: Ralph Waldo Emerson, Pablo Neruda, William Stafford, Naomi Shihab Nye, Joni Mitchell

A few movies: Kiss of the Spider Woman, Le Hérisson, Blade Runner, 8 1/2 Women (not to be confused with Fellini's 8 1/2, but that's a great film too), Woody Allen, Coen Brothers, Kubrick, Godard, and too many others to stuff into this column.

A bit more music: Peter Gabriel, Joni Mitchell, Leonard Cohen, Frank Zappa, Yes, King Crimson, Brian Eno, Jon Hassell, Daniel Lanois, Hans Zimmer, Bon Iver, Keith Jarrett, John Coltrane, Thelonious Monk, Sun Ra, Al di Meola, Astor Piazzola, Pat Metheny, ECM Records Norway/Sweden/Munich/London/NY, Alexis Weissenberg, Serge Gainsbourg, Billie Holiday with Lester Young, Carmen McRae with strings, Shirley Horn with Charlie Haden, and a huge pile of art rock spanning the 60's - present day. Music is like breathing for me, and so it feels funny trying to pick a favorite anything. I will however listen to just about anything twice with an open mind before deciding whether or not I'll listen to it again.

TV: More often than not I find myself watching it vicariously through others, however the new Cosmos is a breath of fresh air!

Food: Freshness, balance, simplicity... That basically means Italy. Yes, I'd like to eat the whole country of Italy. I love that Seattle has great Indian, Mexian (especially Oaxacan), Thai and Vietnamese options. Brunch at French bistro? Yes and yes!
The six things I could never do without
Honesty, Genuine Love, Laughing, Eating well (this includes Italian sparkling water and wine), and ah yes, Fantasies... The sensory aspects of this world translate to celebrating them to the fullest, which may spontaneously invoke daydreams of irrepressible passion on an almost daily basis...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I might capitalize on the quality of my time while still relatively young on this planet. I am shamelessly following my bliss so that in turn I might simply give it back.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not playing a gig then likely it's getting together with friends, enjoying fine food and beverage, or just being mellow and unraveling from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have trouble peeing when people talk.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are curious and this makes sense.