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smilezones

47 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:45pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'll get to the serious stuff in a second but - what do I want? I want to be giggling in bed (with, not at, each other). When laughing we've lost all sense of pretense that keeps people at a distance and are totally in the moment...The awkwardness is over, the apprehension's gone and fun has set in. Ultimately that's what I'm after but there's more...

I am an attractive, serious minded but playful woman with a wry sense of humor, looking to foist a tremendous amount of affection upon the right partner. While I value my independence, I have an increasing need to have someone special laugh at my jokes, share inane conversation, hold me and make smiling a habit. Most important to me is the ability to feel comfortable talking with my partner and feel like I’ve been heard. You will recognize yourself when I say I want an equal partner, someone who will stand up to me and for me, someone who wants, and will get, a soft place to fall. When necessary, and it always is, we are each others' respite, reprieve and comic relief. I am happiest when trying something new because it reminds me that the world is an infinitely interesting place. But I'm also prone to hunker down with a good book, cook, watch movies, and stay in bed with you. Our attraction for each other is visceral and sensual and it neither starts nor ends in the bedroom. Because fitness and attraction are important and because body image is subjective, slender means I vacillate between a size 4 and 6. The pictures are from May 2011, I'm really 52 and this is what it looks like on me.

In a city full of smart men - you're warm, sensual, sexual and know the difference. I appreciate people who are thoughtful and articulate about their life and the world around them (strong, silent types need not apply) and there are still things that incite and inspire you. My world is a politically liberal one and open mindedness is important to me. Since I work out, and want to lead an active lifestyle, I prefer men who actually play sports or work out rather than just watch. Culture in your life is not limited to the yogurt sitting in your fridge and you know that kindness is the strongest aphrodisiac.

Lastly, I am very allergic to smoke and dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
I've decided very recently to jump off the proverbial (not real) bridge and make my professional life more satisfying.
I’m really good at
Figuring people / situations out without a lot of actual information.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are many but recently I saw the doc "Stories We Tell" by film maker Sarah Polley. It was the best personal doc I've seen in a while about families, truth and lies, how we perceive and construct the stories we tell about our life to ourselves and others... it was fascinating and left me pensive for hours.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to get out of my own way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Amongst the many things I don't want to do alone anymore, traveling is what we can start off with.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 47–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Most of this resonates with you- mind and body....