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smilin_steve

61 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm looking for my female best friend first, with the goal of a monogamous LTR/ life partner/wife. I'm an optimist and believe in the power of positive thinking. Proud to be a 145 lb., active & fit, US born Chinese-American. Hold B.A. & Associates degrees and retired from my work in education/web technology and partially with disabled college students. Currently a real estate investor.

My parents taught me to be well-mannered & considerate of others. I listened.

I love to laugh and look for the humor in daily life. I'm spiritual, not necessarily religious, but follow Christian principles. Affectionate. open-minded, flexible. Non-smoker, occasional social drinker, no hard drugs. Interests: Self-defense, cycling/outdoors, working out (weight training), sports (mostly basketball & football, some baseball & hockey), healthy diet, smart movies with a plot. When I hear a good beat I can't sit still; so let's dance.

My three wonderful kids are in college (1 boy, 2 girls).

I'm a widower with no ex-wife issues. That experience has given me a renewed zest for life. If you are my new love, you'd be cherished, appreciated, and not taken for granted.

“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
―Abraham Lincoln

I rejoice.
What I’m doing with my life
Loving friends and family. Exercising and trying to eat right.
I’m really good at
Being positive & open-minded.
Fixing stuff.
The Golden Rule.
Finding the strength to change things, accepting the things that I cannot change, and knowing the difference.
The first things people usually notice about me
Good listener, upbeat, my sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shows: Conan O'Brien, Chris Rock, Big Bang Theory, 30 Rock.

Music: I like most music but especially jazz, ie Pat Metheny Group.

Intelligent movies with a plot; to name a few: Unknown, Taken, The Bourne series, Master and Commander, Last of the Mohicans, Rob Roy, Bridesmaids, The Help, Green Mile, Shawshank Redemption, Once Upon A Time In The West, Hunt for Red October, The Professional, Where the Heart Is, Forrest Gump.
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Health
Common sense
Wise use of time
Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finding the next lady soul-mate to be the focus of my life.
Getting my kids through college; namely paying and long-distance guidance.
Investments.
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends & family, eating, sharing a movie, watching sports/music, playing cards/games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
great dental check ups. Not much hair on arms/legs.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
...your heart and/or mind tells you so and
you're the type to reach for an opportunity.