Love to laugh, which I do often. Wake up smiling and find it easy to continue all day… I hear the music of your heart singing beneath your words, and I love discovering what makes each person unique. I think outside the box, trust people until they prove themselves untrustworthy, and have never met a stranger. I'm a dreamer, a passionate participant and an interesting human.
Look for beauty wherever I am, and especially love art, nature and writing. Spiritually fit, artistic, intelligent, attractive and mature. Hobbies include painting, reading, movies (not too much violence), art shows and museums, healthy organic food, occasional dancing.
I'm a Quaker, am interested in metaphysics, practice Open Heart Meditation, am involved with the 12 Steps and am a Meher Baba lover. I am politically liberal.
Enjoy doing things with a man; also enjoy just being in the presence of a Present man. Seeking someone wise enough to know what he does not understand and understands the infinite depth of not knowing. One who appreciates paradox.
I believe that nearly all humans want to give and receive love. Would like to partner with a man who is interested in discovering the places within himself that resist connection, authenticity and love---and who wants a safe partnership space to heal those places. I am willing to be kind, supportive and to reciprocate in ongoing deep healing.
I'm looking for a partner with whom I can grow spiritually. I believe that Spirit is everywhere present, and want to connect deeply with a kind hearted, spiritually curious, monogamous man. A good sense of humor and intelligence are very important to me; Spirit dances to the tune of shared laughter...
I eat a healthy, organic diet. I am blood type O and find that prolonged vegetarianism doesn't work for me, so I eat humanely raised animal products. Cooking is a delightful art form, and even more fun when the kitchen is shared by two friendly hearts who are curious and committed to health and kindness...
Music: Prefer classical, folk, and classic rock. Don't understand jazz---guess I'm like some people who don't like modern art because they don't understand it. I recently read that while plants thrive while listening to Mozart, they die when exposed to rap and jazz. perhaps there is not a nurturing melodic component?
I love my two daughters and five grandchildren who all live in Chicago.
I am currently going deeper in studying and practicing Non-violent, compassionate communication. Listening, really listening with empathy and an open heart, is a skill that I value and practice. True intimacy comes from kindness, honesty and empathy. I am very interested in deep intimacy, the kind David Deida talks about in his books on human relationships and sexuality.
Any active addiction is a deal buster for me. Before exploring sexual intimacy, there would need to be deep friendship between us. If you are any kind of fundamentalist or are politically "conservative" as opposed to "liberal," we are not a good match.