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smilinskydancer

67 Swannanoa, NC Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 55–72
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English, French

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Recently read "Truth in Dating" and am interested in authentic, transparent, honest communication from the beginning. Interested? It's risky and has the potential to open the door to deep intimacy...

I love to laugh, which I do often. Wake up smiling and find it easy to continue all day… I hear the music of your heart singing beneath your words, and I love discovering what makes each person unique. I think outside the box, trust people until they prove themselves untrustworthy, and have never met a stranger. I'm a dreamer, a passionate participant and an interesting human.

I look for beauty wherever I am, and especially love art, nature and writing. I'm spiritually fit, artistic, intelligent, attractive and mature. My hobbies include painting, reading, traveling, movies (not too much violence), art shows and museums, healthy organic food, occasional dancing. I am a Quaker, am interested in metaphysics, practice Open Heart Meditation, am involved with the 12 Steps and am a Meher Baba lover. I am politically liberal.

I am looking for a partner to with whom I can grow spiritually. I believe that Spirit is everywhere present, and want to connect deeply with a kind hearted, spiritually curious, monogamous man. A good sense of humor is very important to me; Spirit dances to the tune of shared laughter...

Any active addiction is a deal buster for me. Before exploring sexual intimacy, there would need to be deep friendship between us. If you are any kind of fundamentalist, we are not a good match.

Music: I prefer classical, folk, and classic rock. Don't understand jazz---guess I'm like some people who don't like modern art because they don't understand it. I recently read that while plants thrive while listening to Mozart, they die when exposed to rap and jazz. perhaps there is not a nurturing melodic component?

I love my children and five grandchildren who all live in Chicago.

I am currently going deeper in studying and practicing Non-violent, compassionate communication. Listening, really listening with empathy and an open heart, is a skill that I value and practice. True intimacy comes from kindness, honesty and empathy. I am very interested in deep intimacy, the kind David Deida talks about in his books on human relationships and sexuality.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am writing a book, and am passionate about it. I believe that it will help many people in deep, life changing ways.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing what is right.
Communicating---listening and sharing.
Smiling. Art. Writing. Appreciating nature.
I have a grateful, open heart and am a loyal, trustworthy and interesting friend.
Have been interested in energy healing and alternative medicine for a long time. I know quite a bit about these subjects, and am interested in learning more.
I am intelligent and have a good sense of humor--and appreciate the same in a man.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. That I love to laugh, am kind and have many interests. That spirituality, not religion, is the focus of my life. My friends often tell me how courageous I am. I am not afraid to do deep inner work and feel growing pains...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
would enjoy reading out loud to each other...interested?

Rilke, Hafiz, Rumi
Mary Oliver, David Whyte
Barbara Kingsolver
John O'Donahue
Isabelle Allende
Ekard Tolle
David Deida
Pat Conroy, John Irving

A Prayer for Owen Meany
The Dovekeepers
The Presence Process by Michael Brown
The Art of Driving in the Rain
I recently read the Hunger Games trilogy and found them riveting, disturbing and at one point, deeply and spiritually moving.

I always try to eat healthy, organic food. enjoy a lot of raw food and interesting vegetarian and fish dishes. can't ever eat hot, spicy food

Love good drama, comedies, non violent movies, especially true stories that are inspirational. Liked True Grit, The King's Speech, Something the Lord Has Made (true story of the first open heart surgery on a "blue baby"), Off the Map, Frida, films about Christo, Whale Rider, The Secret of Roan Innish, Big Fish.

I enjoy doing things with a man. I also enjoy just being in the presence of a Present man.

I particularly enjoy live theatre, opera, ballet. I think that maybe Cirque de Soleil is the way of the REAL world. What a creative and inspirational experience... anything is possible if we expand our vision and dive deeply into what COULD be... if we dare to dream it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my spiritual connection
friends and family
gratitude
learning new things
an open mind
my belief in Love and Life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Infinite Consciousness
learning more about compassion and love
becoming an even better listener and communicator
being of service to the Earth and other people
what is possible
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't' have "typical Friday nights." When I had a partner, it was "date night" and I would love to have a regular date night again!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is not a venue for sharing "private things." But it IS a venue for sharing honestly and authentically, from the heart. This comes naturally to me...does it to you?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you like to do things, see things and experience as much as possible

...if you are upbeat, communicative, spiritual, and emotionally intelligent.

...if you enjoy metaphysical and/or philosophical conversations.

...if you know how to laugh and how to make your date laugh out loud---with gentle, warm-hearted humor.

...if you are open minded, liberal, kind and authentic

...if you have a passion for Peace.

...if you think we will resonate. let me know what you find interesting about me...This is always a mystery...what clicks between people...