I love to laugh, which I do often. Wake up smiling and find it easy to continue all day… I hear the music of your heart singing beneath your words, and I love discovering what makes each person unique. I think outside the box, trust people until they prove themselves untrustworthy, and have never met a stranger. I'm a dreamer, a passionate participant and an interesting human.
I look for beauty wherever I am, and especially love art, nature and writing. I'm spiritually fit, artistic, intelligent, attractive and mature. My hobbies include painting, reading, traveling, movies (not too much violence), art shows and museums, healthy organic food, occasional dancing. I am a Quaker, am interested in metaphysics, practice Open Heart Meditation, am involved with the 12 Steps and am a Meher Baba lover. I am politically liberal.
I am looking for a partner to with whom I can grow spiritually. I believe that Spirit is everywhere present, and want to connect deeply with a kind hearted, spiritually curious, monogamous man. A good sense of humor is very important to me; Spirit dances to the tune of shared laughter...
Any active addiction is a deal buster for me. Before exploring sexual intimacy, there would need to be deep friendship between us. If you are any kind of fundamentalist, we are not a good match.
Music: I prefer classical, folk, and classic rock. Don't understand jazz---guess I'm like some people who don't like modern art because they don't understand it. I recently read that while plants thrive while listening to Mozart, they die when exposed to rap and jazz. perhaps there is not a nurturing melodic component?
I love my children and five grandchildren who all live in Chicago.
I am currently going deeper in studying and practicing Non-violent, compassionate communication. Listening, really listening with empathy and an open heart, is a skill that I value and practice. True intimacy comes from kindness, honesty and empathy. I am very interested in deep intimacy, the kind David Deida talks about in his books on human relationships and sexuality.