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smilish

35 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:42pm
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Life is frickin' awesome.

I work out three times a week, smile at everything, and always see the upside and other side to everything.

Routine? Yes and no; I like to plan things out, but when I don't have longer-term plans I will make last minute decisions and stand by them! No regrets here!

I am empathetic to a fault, and always construct working stories of people's best intentions. I fervently believe in the inherent good in people and while some may fault me for my rose colored glasses I'd like to keep them as long as I can. Naïve? Perhaps. But I'd like to think that I always give everyone the opportunity to make me proud.

Life will always work out.

Note: I don't live in Oakland yet, but I'm in the process of buying a condo there. Exciting!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a programmer by training, and a creative at heart.

Recently I've also been into outrigger canoeing... and just realized that that I'm on the path to becoming an actual bona fide athlete. Not something I thought I'd ever become...
I’m really good at
Figuring out what needs to be done and doing it. This applies to everything, from my day job to hobbies to helping a friend out.

More specifically, I'm pretty awesome at cooking. I've learned to sew respectably, can do household repairs when needed, play bridge reasonably, and am fairly competent at the piano and violin.

I'm also really good at parsing information and reassembling it and analyzing it for different audiences. As a result, I'm also really good at selecting just the right words to use.

Oh yeah, and probably most importantly, I'm really really good at not freaking out.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm Japanese.

The first thing I usually notice about other people is that they're wrong... about me being Japanese.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Science-fiction/Fantasy, Social commentary, Existentialist:
Mistborn (Brandon Sanderson), Old Man's War (John Scalzi), Omnivore's Dilemna (Michael Pollan), The Transparent Society (David Brin), Waiting For Godot (Samuel Beckett), Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead (Tom Stoppard), The Hunger Games (Suzanne Collins).

Movies:
Action-adventure, Existential, Chick-flicks:
Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, Avengers, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Stranger than Fiction, Love Actually, Devil Wears Prada

TV:
Sci-Fi, Comedy, Drama, Crime-solving:
Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, Arrested Development, How I Met Your Mother, Downton Abbey, Bones, Castle

Music:
Classical, movie soundtracks, dance:
Frédéric Chopin, Maurice Ravel, Hans Zimmer, Danny Elfman, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry.

Food:
Ethnic, comfort food, soup:
Ethiopian, Indian, Japanese, macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes, omelettes, pho, minestrone, clam chowder.
The six things I could never do without
Sleep
Exercise
Independence
Optimism
Friendship
Pleasure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Tomorrow's activities.
2. What I'm feeling and why I'm feeling it.
3. Human nature.

Found a fascinating article about the economics of dating in the internet age: http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/01/the-many-problems-with-online-datings-radical-efficiency/266796/

...so here's a proposal. Let's chat if you think we would be on the surface "not work," and see if there's anything interesting?
On a typical Friday night I am
Working out, going to a movie, making dinner... there doesn't seem to be a typical Friday.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're assertive yet empathetic, you're strong yet sensitive, you're independent yet would like a parter-in-crime.