At 26, I'm still not entirely sure what I want to be when I grow up. My "dream job" changes on a weekly basis, but the two that I frequently return to are writing consultant/tutor/teacher and food critic. I am passionate about learning, writing and helping others -- and getting paid to eat delicious food seems like a pretty sweet deal to me.
I'm a huge nerd, and I love other nerds. I know very little about science, I'm terrible at math, and I suck at video games as a general rule. However, when it comes to film, television (particularly horror, modern fantasy, and more recently science fiction), and literature (of pretty much any genre that doesn't include Twilight or 50 Shades of Gray), my nerdiness is a force to be reckoned with.
I will be the first person to call myself fat. It's taken me a long time, but I'm cool with it. Super skinny people scare me.
I read constantly and write frequently -- poetry, fiction, and creative non-fiction. I am attracted to other creative types, but not people who take themselves too seriously.
I have a boyfriend kmax472 that I met on here 3 years ago. He's pretty amazing. We've recently decided to try being open, so I'm "on the market" for cool, fun, and attractive dudes and/or ladies to possibly be FWB with. Thick nerdy ladies with ink or nice nerdy guys with facial hair and/or ink move to the top of the list. Appreciation of a curvy lady is a must.
DISCLAIMER (because apparently this needs to be said) -- Just because I'm looking for "casual sex" does not mean that I'll hook up with you after five minutes of chatting. The "F" part of FWB is just as important to me as the "B", if not more. If you're not interested in getting to know me a little bit as a person as opposed to just a hole to stick your dick in, you'd be better off looking elsewhere. THAT BEING SAID, I'm just about fed up with the people who will chat for a few days, act super interested, and then completely fall off the face of the earth when the time comes to pull the trigger. If you decide that you're not interested or would rather just be friends without the benefits that's totally okay, but please have the respect & common decency to tell me so. We're all adults here (hopefully), so let's not act like high school kids who only know how to interact through game-playing. I don't have the time or the patience for that bullshit. Okay? Okay!
I love words, food, music, my boyfriend, nerds, fat girls, good weed, and autumn days.