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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 8:50am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a fun loving person. I love live music and movies including the classics. I am an amateur guitar player who does sing. The singing has been at karaoke. I have friends who are encouraging me to do an open mike and have done it about five times. I love to bicycle and hike but don't do it enough. Its more fun to do it with someone. My job has me all over the Bay Area. I can be anywhere from Marin to Marina so I'm very mobile in who I might meet.

The last ten years I have met many people and I have grown because of it. I am a 2 on the Enneagram which is the helper. It's true. On the Briggs-Meyer, I am a ENFJ. It is intersting that we can be reduced to a number and letter scores. Of course that starts when we start school. Also job reviews reduce us to numbers too.

I am a music lover, optimist, and a man of great humor

TRUTH IN ADVERTISING: I have been one of the casualties of the recent economic times. I was laid off twice in one year after many years of stable work history. To get back to working I had to settle for working a job I love but at about 60% of my past income. Recently my job has increased in in responsibility and better income Im supporting myself. I pay all my bills off every month and I'm not in debt! Yay! But I will not be the one able to travel or do fine dining as much as I would like. So I'm not looking for a sugar mama. I'm not rich but I'm not cheap
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have been doing retail for about 37 years. No more. At least directly. It is now M-F and no more evenings. I can now enjoy life like most people!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty good cook. If I do say so myself. I enjoy sitting down and enjoying a good meal along with a bottle of wine or a six pack of beer
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am always at live music events. Its getting to be that I am expected to be there. A musician friend told me that I am at more gigs thatn he is. You will see me there tapping my foot and the swaying to the music
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies-I love classic movies the most. Turn on TCM and I am fine. For more modern movies I love comedies, romantic movies(my feminine side showing), independent movies and good dramas. Special effects are fine if they need to be part of the movie but not if there is still not a story there. Blood and gut movies mostly not.

Music- The basic are blues, rock, classic rock, folk, country rock and to borrow from another person's profile KPIG radio. I would say I am very eclectic in my music tastes

Food-I love to cook myself. I like many types of food. They do not include fish and mushrooms as I am allergic to them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Children even though they are busy with their lives,
My Guitar,
My Mazda Miata,
My I Phone (the wonders of modern technology,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I need a relationship in my life to balanve my life out.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Again live music but that is not restricted to friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I miss having someone to share my life with and the good things that go along with that. I have been told I am a good kisser and miss that too. I am also known to buy flowers for no occasion. It's fine for occasions but unexpected times is even better