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smp214

52 F Carmel, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
As I swiftly move toward being an empty nester, I am contemplating what I really enjoy versus what I have time for. So far, I like walking and hiking in good weather. I enjoy supporting my public library. In the near future Habitat for Humanity and the Humane Society will get some volunteer hours from me. That should give you a good idea of what I value. Early retirement is a distinct possibility in just a few years, and I am excited to think about a whole new career for Act 2.

I am an ENFJ. If that means anything to you, great! I am something along the lines of 5% of the population, so it's not been easy to find a match. If you're an INTJ, perhaps we should meet!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I work hard as a teacher (No! In Indiana that seems to be equated with felons!), and I still play mom to my teenager who lives with me full time. I take care of home and family, which sometimes is 24/7.
I’m really good at
Responding politely to men who write me a thoughtful e-mail. Listening, sharing, dreaming. Simplifying the complicated. Visualizing new spaces. Baking carrot cake. Drinking coffee. Chewing the fat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: John Irving A PRAYER FOR OWEN MEANY, Barbara Kingsolver PRODIGAL SUMMER, James Alexander Thom PANTHER IN THE SKY, Jane Knuth THRIFT STORE SAINTS: MEETING JESUS 25 CENTS AT A TIME
MUSIC: Tom Petty, Patsy Cline, Frank Sinatra, Neil Young, Santana, David Gray, Steely Dan, Jethro Tull, Sarah McLachlan, Brandi Carlile, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Allman Bros., John Mayer, The Killers, U2, Ray LaMontagne, Led Zeppelin, The Who, Ramsey Lewis Trio
MOVIES: The Cooler, Coen Bros. films, The Godfather 1 and 2, Some Like It Hot, Boogie Nights, Winter's Bone, The Age of Innocence, Michael Clayton, Chicago, You Kill Me, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, The Intouchables, The Untouchables, LA Confidential, Little Miss Sunshine, The Truth About Cats and Dogs
SHOWS: Recently relished The Book of Mormon, always love Chicago
TV: CBS Sunday Morning, too much HGTV, Big Bang Theory, Criminal Minds, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black
The six things I could never do without
Coffee.
I prefer my life caffeinated, hot, black. A morning nonfat latte is my liquid optimism.
That's one. Five to go.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of sin and guilt in a post-modernistic society, and what the six, no, FIVE things are that I can't do without. ;) Actually, I do think quite a bit about the online dating culture, particularly in my age range, identifying the rules of engagement (or lack thereof), discovering indicators in profiles, looking for patterns, enjoying the folly of being human.
On a typical Friday night I am
Snuggling in the recliner with my dog and a good book. Cleaning the kitchen and watching a movie. Working on my rap album.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Why does this site want to know my deepest, darkest secrets? :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 49–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're funny and smart, open-minded, and not into prejudices of race and sexual orientation, which is probably redundant since you wouldn't be very smart. Please don't message me if you have not answered any questions on this site.