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48 Blue Springs, MO Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 1:07pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
When drinking
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a guy setting up the next phase of my life. After surviving a combat tour and losing my wife, I have learned the hard way that life is short, thus I have committed to living the rest of my life with no regrets.

Professionally, I suppose I have a bit of a split personality--I'm a commissioned army officer, and I'm also a classically trained musician. My Infantry buddies have trouble picturing me in a tuxedo on stage, and my musician buddies can't see me in the field with weapons in hand. Truth is, each side feeds and enhances the other--I'm a better officer for also being a musician, and the discipline from my military experience has made me a better musician.

I'm comfortable in my skin, and I get up every day, put on my pants like everybody else, and get through each day by putting one foot in front of the other. I have discovered that I'm better with a partner than without, though I am surviving on my own. College is consuming the majority of my time, but I'd be happy to make time for the right lady, should she step forward. Come on down!
What I’m doing with my life
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In addition to maintaining my army career, I am currently pursuing a second bachelor's degree in music education. The plan is to then use it to start another career as a high school orchestra teacher.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
many things...some can even be discussed in public lol :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really get to see myself from the outside, but I suspect that most folks first notice my near complete lack of a "don't say that"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much reading textbooks right now...

My all-time favorite movie is Casablanca--not sure I would have the cojones to walk away like Rick favorite flicks include MASH, Gone with the Wind, the first Star Wars trilogy, the Harry Potter series, and Shrek

Favorite shows include Big Bang Theory, Two and a Half Men (post-Charlie starting to grow on me), Barney Miller, MASH, Soap

I'm a classically-trained musician, so naturally I gravitate towards so-called "classical" music. However, my iPod also has AC/DC, George Strait, Frank Sinatra, Prince, and Chuck Mangione, among many others...

I'll eat just about anything that's put in front of But when I want to dine, I prefer Italian, Mexican, and good old American steak :D
The six things I could never do without
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My violin
My kids
My friends
Good books
Great music
Not necessarily in this :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make all the pieces of my world fit together and collectively take me to the next phase of my life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from a long week at school... :-o
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, if I said it out loud, it wouldn't be private, would it? :D
You should message me if
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You're an honest, fun-loving, independent lady who knows what she wants, doesn't need to be taken care of (except perhaps in bed lol), and is willing to help a good guy keep moving...let's find out what happens :)