Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a guy setting up the next phase of my life. After surviving a
combat tour and losing my wife, I have learned the hard way that
life is short, thus I have committed to living the rest of my life
with no regrets.
Professionally, I suppose I have a bit of a split personality--I'm
a commissioned army officer, and I'm also a classically trained
musician. My Infantry buddies have trouble picturing me in a tuxedo
on stage, and my musician buddies can't see me in the field with
weapons in hand. Truth is, each side feeds and enhances the
other--I'm a better officer for also being a musician, and the
discipline from my military experience has made me a better
I'm comfortable in my skin, and I get up every day, put on my pants
like everybody else, and get through each day by putting one foot
in front of the other. I have discovered that I'm better with a
partner than without, though I am surviving on my own. College is
consuming the majority of my time, but I'd be happy to make time
for the right lady, should she step forward. Come on down!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In addition to maintaining my army career, I am currently pursuing
a second bachelor's degree in music education. The plan is to then
use it to start another career as a high school orchestra teacher.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
many things...some can even be discussed in public lol :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really get to see myself from the outside, but I suspect
that most folks first notice my near complete lack of a "don't say
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much reading textbooks right now...
My all-time favorite movie is Casablanca--not sure I would have the
cojones to walk away like Rick did...lol...other favorite flicks
include MASH, Gone with the Wind, the first Star Wars trilogy, the
Harry Potter series, and Shrek
Favorite shows include Big Bang Theory, Two and a Half Men
(post-Charlie starting to grow on me), Barney Miller, MASH,
I'm a classically-trained musician, so naturally I gravitate
towards so-called "classical" music. However, my iPod also has
AC/DC, George Strait, Frank Sinatra, Prince, and Chuck Mangione,
among many others...
I'll eat just about anything that's put in front of me...lol But
when I want to dine, I prefer Italian, Mexican, and good old
American steak :D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in this order...lol :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make all the pieces of my world fit together and
collectively take me to the next phase of my life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from a long week at school... :-o
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, if I said it out loud, it wouldn't be private, would it? :D
You should message me if
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You're an honest, fun-loving, independent lady who knows what she
wants, doesn't need to be taken care of (except perhaps in bed
lol), and is willing to help a good guy keep moving...let's find
out what happens :)
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