Along the way I took up competitive sailing, learned to cook, forgot Latin but learned some Mandarin (and then forgot it again, long story), worked way too hard and now I value that work/life balance thing. I'm still active and outdoorsy but these days I'm also spending quiet evenings with the sofa and a book (sometimes a movie), hanging with friends at bars, and looking for someone who enjoys good companionship.
Friends say I'm laid-back, humble but straight-shooting, warm, funny, even-keeled and reasonably "figured out" these days (but why should you trust my friends? you don't know my friends).
My last Myers-Briggs came out ENTJ if you care about those things. I actually think it's pretty accurate.