Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a new mom! My little one was born October 25th. Though I am not
taking my profile down, I'm not really looking right now.
Ping me if you want but it is going to be a bit until I'm up for
I am polyamorous. And the master of the snarky one liners. I tend
to get in over my head. I'm oddly spiritual but not religious. I
have amazing tattoos! (I’ll post photos at some point) My license
plate holder says “Who’s your kitty?”
I am an educator who talks at Sonoma & San Francisco State
Universities about poly & kink. I am one of the organizers of
the burning man camp Poly Asylum and the OpenSF conference. We used
to run the Poly Under 40 Munch, but no longer, it was time it give
it over to the younger crowd.
I have a Life Partner Inki
and am dating urbanknot
. You don’t have to date them,
but if you can hang, game or nerd with them it is +10 bonus points!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently work for a solar company, they have a black boring logo
and if you know solar then you have heard of them. I talk to
college classes, manning (woman-ning?) booths and conferences. We
are getting ready to start the OpenSF 2015 conference
I am desperately trying to finish that book for book club.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Sewing costumes, and Poly Scout Sashes. But, you know, mostly for
* Reading vampire books without shame
* Watching you cook me dinner
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I usually get one of these three:
Wow! I love your :
A) Hair. . . Pink streaked black
B) Earrings. . . double helix swirly metal things
C) Tattoo...Black swirly sleeve. You get +10 points for identifying
the design (at 15 points, I'll even tell you what points are
The Tattoo is especially loved by little old ladies in coffee
shops, go figure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mary Roach, Julie E. Czerneda, Kim Harrison, Christopher
Moore, Teen vampire smut (ok all vampire smut).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night but here are the last few:
Date with Inki
, 2nd Base
Party, Partner of my Partner’s birthday, BBQ . . .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m a magpie; I notice shiny things, and often pick them up. The
ring in my right hand I found in a parking lot.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* You understand that I have a brand new baby *
I am looking for something I’m going to call connected-casualness;
I want people who can hang out every couple of weeks and can form a
good connection in those time constraints. I need to be able to
schedule a few weeks out, I have a lot going on, and not a lot of
*surprise* free nights.
You know the difference between skinny and sexy.
You understand why calling a woman a slut for turning you down is
wrong, and kind of stupid if you think about it.
Also if you have a motorcycle, I’ve never been on one and want a
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