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26 F Milwaukee, WI

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Last Online
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5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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When I was little I wanted a dreamcatcher so I could hold my dreams in my hands when I woke up. That may still be the biggest disappointment of my life.

I like that all of us on here are fundamentally dissatisfied with some aspect of our social lives, so I add myself to the line of faces thinking themselves so full of merit and worthy of love and happiness, longing for each other.
What I’m doing with my life
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Wiping the dust off of my creative writing degree every now and then, just to keep it looking nice.
Teaching myself web design and development.
Trying to find the poetry in all things.
Working a thankless and isolating full-time job I can't find a crumb of poetry in.
Enjoying the immense feelings of power and capability that should be ignited by a rewarding career, redirected instead to the wall of yarn baskets I inevitably find myself standing in front of in the local Michael's, having just learned how to knit.
Leaving origami rabbits around town.
Remembering to reach out and be kind.

Moving to Washington Heights from Waukesha at the end of August, and thrilled to be within walking/biking distance of all the goodness in Milwaukee. What should I know about?

I would really like to start writing again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
HTML easter eggs (obvs). introversion (INFJ!), which sometimes involves being real shy when my inner state doesn't translate into charming affability. making over-easy eggs in a teflon pan, the most beautiful ode to cancer I can think of [edit: I've upgraded to a cast iron skillet]. reading people, empathy, patience in general. being the best driver on the road and accelerating quickly past everyone else to let them know who has the bigger dick (me, bitches).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't have bangs and I don't wear glasses, so I'm thinking it's the terrible bluntness of having a face untempered by fashion [edit: a friend pointed out that my eyebrow stud might be construed as fashion. He has a point.].
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm innately distrustful of anything that's too easy to like. This has given me a deep appreciation for black coffee, meandering literature, discordant tunes, and misfits.

Nick Cave moves me in an ineffable way, which is the most I can ask of any musician. Speaking of ineffable, I can listen to this song repeatedly, and each time it digs up this really sweet aching.

Richard Brautigan, Tom Robbins, Annie Dillard, Frank Stanford, and John Berryman are some of my favorite word-hounds.

I had a dream about a piglet with a mutilated face that came in out of a blizzard and leaped into my arms, and now I'm a full-blown vegetarian again.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-a sense of wonder, which holds hands with curiosity, which is married to imagination. Threesome!
-affection, in any of its forms--texts, hugs, letters, head rubs, etc.
-a challenge, project, or goal to keep me engaged.
-new ideas, to remind me that everything is mostly a mystery.

I take a lot of pleasure in seeing just how much stuff I can do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether my rabbit feels as uncomfortable when I pet him in his litter box as I would feel if a large hand reached through the bathroom door and started stroking my head while I was on the toilet.

How I can best package and sell my complex humanity to strangers on the Internet!

Why the people on this site who are only looking for new friends incidentally are only looking for new friends that correspond to the gender to which they're sexually attracted. Y'ALL IS FISHY.

No, but really: how a psychological redistribution of energy is the quickest way to feel alive. love--how to do it richly and honestly, without dependency or complacency, with the constant mutual challenge of pushing the other to be their best self. if it's true that everyone in this age is addicted to something (if you don't think you're addicted to anything, I want to pick your brain). remembering that having a passion for something means suffering for it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a force to be reckoned with. JUST LIKE ALL OTHER NIGHTS.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I take all my showers by candlelight. I do most things by candlelight. I'm part caveman.

Not that this is private, but this seems to be the section where people get serious about their truths: I'm in a relationship with the inestimable still_a_bikeman. We're an OKC success story from way back in 2012 (don't give up hope, my lonelies)! As we both work full-time jobs that don't leave us much time for socializing, we're looking to meet smart, kind, thoughtful folks, as individuals and as a couple. We're looking for genuine connections with good people, not mindless jolly-getting.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
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I've been thinking a lot lately about this idea I heard that you are a composite of the five people you spend most of your time around. I think there's some truth to it, and I like it to the extent that it allows you a real sense of choice in who you become, if you're attuned to the right frequencies that those around you facilitate.

In short, I'd like to surround myself with people who bring the best out of me, and vice versa. Symbiosis, dudez.