First off, Im a good guy. I dont have the perfect body but working on it. Its all a process.

I am open to the possibility of a LTR but dont need to be in a relationship to be comfortable with myself.

I am human. That means Im not perfect and make mistakes. Just trying to figure out this life i live in and would like to have a guy around to enjoy it with.

Been out for about ten years and have spent this time trying to figure out who I am as a person and what I hope to become. Didn't originally find what I was looking for in the community so spent most of my time over the last several years searching out who "HE" is. Yet always looking to figure out who I am.

I see the importance in bettering ones self and love chatting with people who are the same. Like a guy who is always evolving into a better person.

If you are still interested in talkin or maybe meeting, I dont bite. Hope to hear from ya.

I am an English major, hoping to teach middle school kids. Have a background as a correctional officer, and hoping I can make a difference by workin with kids struggling to stay in school. during my summer months I hope to write and eventually publish my own book. Currently working with developmentally disabled adults and absolutely love it.

well, i write poetry and feel im good with using words to entice people to read on. I also play all brass instruments except the trombone.

my eyes and my smile

well the book i read recently was "The Shack."

love horror movies.

love a lot of different types of music so dont really have just one particular one i like.

love pizza

having my teenage son around. thats it. everything else doesnt matter. at the end of the day all you really have is your family. friends come and go. based on finances, so do material items

my spiritual life, how i can be a better parent, and how i can achieve my goals.

well, i work saturdays so in bed early. but "my" friday, im usually reconnecting with friends and trying to socialize. maybe grab a movie, a drink, a coffee, whatever.

though i come across as a person who finds it easy to socialize i tend to be a bit shy. I worry about what others think. guess i tend to be a bit of a perfectionist and try very hard to do what i do well.

if you want to meet someone who is real, compassionate, has a heart and isnt into the drama typical of the gay scene. You shouldnt message me if you dont like kids. hes my world!!