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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:15pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Dropped out of Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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:D Hi. My name is Sarah. Mainly my interest in updating my OKcupid profile is to meet new people / make friends.

That said, if I do find someone for "more", I'm looking for my partner in crime. OK, to elaborate, we would not actually be seeking out crime to partake in but I like the connotations it evokes. I want the balanced combination of physical, intellectual and emotional attractions. I guess I’m still naive enough to be holding out for the man that can set off fireworks in me (and I for him) with a kiss, enjoy a game of Catan, a day out on the town or a night cuddling on the couch AND has had enough experience in life, and in love to appreciate what an awesome relationship we create with each other.

I guess what I’m really looking to say is that if you want to stand any chance at getting to know me intimately, you need to be GGG. Not familiar with the term? Google Dan Savage and listen or read a bit of his work and you'll figure it out pretty quick.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to figure out how to be my own boss and pay the bills. Consider it a premature mid life crisis. But I got sick of working in an office and being another cog in a cubicle. I made this change at the beginning of the summer (June 2013) and so far so good. It's an interesting path, and I'm very much enjoying the adventure of doing something that fits my needs / eccentricities / never ending quests for self discovery &/or self improvement.
The first things people usually notice about me
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No idea. I would think it depends on the person and the circumstances of the occasion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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* Song of Ice & Fire Series by George R.R. Martin
* Feed by Mira Grant
* 1984 & Burmese Days by George Orwell
* I Am Legend by Richard Matheson - Loved loved loved the ending.
* Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
* Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins (aka Dystopic Futures 101)
* Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling
* Pretty much anything ever written by Chuck Palahniuk, Philippa Gregory, Ken Follett, Walley Lamb, David Sedaris, Anthony Bourdain, Dan Savage, Stephen King, Neil Gaiman, Michael Crichton, Max Brooks, and a lots more that are slipping the mind at the moment.
* Also a big fan of a few comics: Y Last Man & The Walking Dead. I'm open to suggestions. :D

The Daily Show, Louie, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Shark Tank / Dragon's Den, All things Joss Whedon (Buffy, Angel, Firefly, Dollhouse), All things Aaron Sorkin (Studio 60 On The Sunset Strip, West Wing, The Newsroom), Most things BBC, LOST (cept for the ending), La Femme Nikita (the TV series not the original French or American movies), X-Files, The Office & Others I'm Forgetting At The Moment

Ignored on purpose. I can't begin to rationally list movies that have had an impact on me without feeling bad about forgetting a heap that my brain as forgotten I've internalized. :P

Radio / Podcasts...
The Moth, This American Life, Savage Love, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Radio Lab

I'm addicted to Spotify. A few of my favorite bands include: M. Ward, Enimem, Modest Mouse, Mother Mother, Cake, Lady Gaga, Third Eye Blind, Harvey Danger, Butthole Surfers, *blush* Joss Whedon musicals, (hed) pe, Alanis Morissette, Ben Folds (Five), Collective Soul, Duncan Sheik, Fuel, Gaytar, Casionauts, Garbage, Godsmack, Green Day, La Roux, Limp Bizkit. Marilyn Manson, Northern State, The Trucks, Ok Go, Savage Garden, The Postal Service, The White Stripes, Yelle, Arcade Fire, Feist, Just Jack, Lily Allen, M.I.A., MGMT, Miike Snow, Morgan Page, Muse, Papa Roach, Santogold, Shiny Toy Guns, The Killers, The Ting Tings, The Verve Pipe, Passenger, Watsky, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Metric, Macklemore, My God, The Heat, Artic Monkeys, Imagine Dragons, Foster The People and lots more I’m forgetting.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Non-things: My cats (I have two). Sunshine. Fresh air. Random acts of human kindness. The sound of rain against the windows during a thunderstorm. You know, the stuff that makes life worth living.

1. My laptop, phone and the Internets. Seriously, I get grumpy if I'm cut off from electronics. :(
2. Side projects. I don't stay idle for very long before I have to throw myself into something, be it crafty stuff like sewing or beading, or building the biggest fort ever on Minecraft, or dreaming up the perfect tiny house.
3. My bed, it's comfy.
4. HOT soapy showers.
5. Board games.
6. Ben & Jerry's Pumpkin Cheesecake ice cream. Seriously, I think the secret ingredient is crack. Thank goodness it's only available in "limited" batches. Nom nom nom. Crack I swear.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever strikes my fancy.
You should message me if
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1.) You got this far you should totally send me a message, preferably something with wit and/or banter.
2.) You know which weapon you'd grab before running out the door from an forthcoming hoard of lumbering zombies. Think fast, you only have time to grab one thing and it make the difference between life and death. :P