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52 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:45pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm witty and sassy and have fun playing it light and silly... but also very in touch with my serious side. I consider myself to be, and hear from others as well, that I'm very genuine and down to earth. I'm very friendly and open, non-judgemental and compassionate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finally getting time to live it more for me! I've recently moved in to the city from the burbs and with my kids either out or independent I'm excited about more spontaneously taking advantage of what life has to offer. It's time to travel more, be it far away adventures or more small town road trips and explore some interests that might not have been as accessible to me before time-wise. In the past I may have held back more, now I'm challenging myself and that feels good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being that cliche good listener... but yes, it's true... especially because I'm eternally curious and will want to know all about you! So if you're uncomfortable sharing and talking about 'you', no need applying. I'm totally willing to be an open book too... that's how I like it, otherwise neither of us knows what we're getting into!
I am a truly loyal friend, very patient and caring, very affectionate, a great cuddler and give a f'n awesome massage.. yup.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
physically... BIG blue eyes... if I had a penny for every time I've heard that comment! Oh... well they don't make pennies anymore :/ Okay... whatever lol
Otherwise I'm seen as quite extroverted and fun, with a quick wit and quirky sense of humour, and I'm easy to get to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-anything with Tilda Swinton... intense!... I am Love
-Midnight in Paris... anything Woody Allen
-Coming Home
-I Love You Man
-Life is Beautiful
-Rachel Getting Married
-Almost Famous
-Children of Men
-This is the End
-Team America... what's not to love? :P

Shows: don't watch much currently but...
-Orange is the New Black!
-Six Feet Under
Sure... a l'il SNL time is always good
-30 Rock
-Curb Your Enthusiasm

-A Fine Balance
-The Good Earth
-Fall on Your Knees
-The Road

Music: All over the board...
Black Keys, Bon Iver, Citizen Cope, deadmau5, Eminem, Florence, Jack White, Moby, Mother Mother, Sheepdogs, Timbaland
always some classic Beatles,
and there's always a time n place for some AC/DC and NIN
and yes, I love me a l'il JT :P

Food! Yes please :)
ethnic and exciting with spice:
Ethiopian, Indian, Lebanese
and lacto-ovo-pescitarian please
French fries and dark chocolate always welcome :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Who comes up with this?... SIX?.. okay, totally random...

-lip gloss
-high heels

-I'm editing now... Music! how could I leave out music!
-and please... Common Sense!... you don't have to be a Mensa member and really, without being anal about it I think I can truly say my number one pet peeve is lack of common sense :/
(And yes i just used the word 'anal' in my okc profile... uh oh)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've recently been consciously working on dropping the overthinking and just living in the moment, appreciating what we perceive to be 'just' 'the small things' and being grateful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's never a typical with me as my schedule is varied... I sometimes work a weekend shift.
Even if I've done a Friday 12 hour shift I'm a bit of a night owl and could still be getting out with friends or just cooking and then watching a movie at home... yawn. But it's comfortable :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm... there's really nothing I'd feel I'm 'admitting'... to me that denotes something really secretive or wrong and I'm a pretty open book and can't think of anything I'm ashamed to talk about.
You should message me if
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You also don't want to do endless online chat, but are serious about taking the next step and meeting face to face if it appears we have some connection here.
And you're at least remotely open to the idea of a relationship... I'm definitely looking for more than casual dating at this point