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23 Alameda, CA Genderfluid, Androgynous, Woman

Genderfluid, Androgynous, Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
May 11
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a silly queer who likes to fuck with gender normatives.
I can be either absurdly shy and timid, or incredibly bold and outgoing.
I enjoy observing and discussing the world around me, preferably with company.
I love singing and will shamelessly join in whenever I hear a song I know, no matter where I am.
I am obsessed with rainbows.
I am open and continuous strand of letters and words and hopes and dreams.

In an open and committed relationship.

Ask me anything :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently graduated from UCSC, and now I'm back in the Bay where I was born and raised. I work part time at a non-profit in SF that provides programs for inner city youth, though I'm hoping to find a real job to help pay off my real loans. Other than that, I'm just trying to keep myself together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Crafting & making new things from random bits of other things.
Making bow ties & looking really dapper as fuck.
Baking chocolate chips cookies and vegan peanut butter brownies.
Writing my emotions into poems and stories and letters.
Making snarky commentary on just about anything, especially TV shows and movies.
Supporting others.
Communicating my needs.
Putting googly eyes onto anything and everything.
Dressing how I feel - boi, girl, or somewhere in between.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My short red hair, bright blue eyes, 5'1 stature, and my BIG personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Howl's Moving Castle, Shantaram, Somebody Else's Children, HP1-7, Shel Silverstein, Youth In Revolt, The Miseducation of Cameron Post, 1984, John Dies At The End, Fight Club.

Movies: Forgetting Sarah Marshall, The Muppets (Christmas), Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog (and any other musical really), anything Disney (but particularly Mulan), HP1-7, Mean Girls, Fight Club.

Shows: BBC Sherlock, Mad Men, Little Britain, anything Joss Whedon, Glee, Orange Is The New Black, Lost.

Music: Mika, Sam Smith, , Tegan and Sara, Mumford and Sons, Janelle Monae, Barenaked Ladies, Foxy Shazam, The Rocket Summer, anything I can sing along to.

Food: I have a huge sweet tooth – orange dark chocolate wins every time. But I also love sushi, mac ‘n cheese, brie, hummus, banku and okro stew.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Burt's Bees chapstick
Music that moves me
People to love
The ability/freedom to express myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Queer-ness, identity, sexuality, gender fluidity, intersectionality, what new thing I can glue googly eyes on to, future craft projects, how to give a voice to (my) emotions and life experiences, my family, new ways to make people smile, what new Autostraddle article just came out, if I can make it to the beach in time for sunset.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably somewhere being crafty somehow, hanging out with friends, baking, watching a movie, surrounding myself with queers, adventuring, watching the city light up and the stars shine, or having dance party by myself in the kitchen - and loving it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I nicknamed my legs Chewbacca.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a crafter or writer.
You have a (probably unhealthy) obsession with googly eyes/fake mustaches.
You rock a good bow tie.
You are hella kinky.

Or if you simply have something you want to say :)