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snowitall

40 / M / Straight / Single

Cambridge, Massachusetts

His Details

Last Online
Today – 11:40am
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Ok, third time's the charm. I will become a master profile writer if it kills me!

I am an early riser, a trail runner, a computer programmer, a snowboard rider, a globe trotter, a whiskey drinker, and from time to time (despite my picture, not at the moment), a beard-wearer. I'm no flower child, but I am more interested in the journey than the destination. I don't sweat the small stuff, and sometimes I don't sweat the big stuff either. As the New Yorker cartoon said, I suffer from accurate self-esteem. I believe dharma trumps karma.

I'm introverted but not shy. I'm half German but sometimes it feels like more. I sing along with the music at work. I am an adept conversationalist, and a competent writer.

I like running flat terrain, but I'm better at hills. I like my snow steep and deep. I don't always take the shortest route, but I don't get lost. I don't panic.

I prefer good food to fancy food, and would rather eat at Olecito than Ole. I'm not hopeless in the kitchen but I cook off-recipe, with mixed results. I like a good beer, not too hoppy, a good petite syrah when it's cold or a fino sherry when it's hot, and from time to time, an Islay whisky, typically neat.

I like my job; I don't love it. But I can say computers, and the mathematics that makes them work, are probably a lot more interesting than you think. I am fascinated by them and by the impact they have on society.

My preferred layer of culture is upper-middlebrow. I enjoy the everyday arts of novels, movies, and music, but better when an unexpected brilliance shines out of the haze. I am a (video) gamer - but before you scoff, listen to my lectures on the sawtooth progression or ludic dissonance!

I love traveling, and generally prefer a little adventure in my tourism. I managed to heli-snowboard at Whistler and hang glide, badly, in Albuquerque in two recent trips. Local travel in New England is always enjoyable in the warmer months. There are few things I enjoy more than drinking a good beer in the sunshine, listening to the seagulls in some quaint harbor.

I'm hoping to find someone thoughtful and witty, and kind-hearted (though a certain amount of cynicism is healthy these days). Somebody who, like me, enjoys exercise (though not to excess), time spent with friends and family, and exploring the world. Someone with whom I can share the project of making life better, one moment at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
I'll be honest - if I were doing that much with my life, I wouldn't be here. Primarily, I am working hard, playing occasionally, exercising as much as my knees will allow, and trying to learn new things all the time.

Probably the main thing I'm _not_ doing, is traveling as much as I'd like to, especially to Europe, by bicycle, and combinations of the two. I'm also not drinking as much sherry as I ought.

I did manage to get some hang gliding in this fall. I thought maybe what I was going to do with my life was become a hang glider pilot, but on second thought, I may keep my day job. Anyway that's one of the kinds of things I try to do as much as I can - try new things and explore. The other thing is to be part of a loving relationship and that's where you come in.
I’m really good at
Humor so subtle, sometimes even I don't know for sure whether I'm making a joke.
Jogging on ice.
Packing.
Doing something the first time.
The first things people usually notice about me
That they can't pronounce my name, which is weirdly foreign for someone as ordinarily American as myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Impossible question! I'm going to try to flesh this section out with more content and less verbiage.

Current book: The Satanic Verses
Books I recently enjoyed:
The End of History and the Last Man (edifying!)
Anathem (got wacky at the end though)
Blood Meridian (wow)
The Pity of it All (fascinating!)
Moby Dick (?!)
I am constantly reading the New Yorker.

Most recent good movies: Irreversible (rough)
Movies I recently enjoyed: Detective Dee and the Mystery of the Phantom Flame, Remains of the Day, Glengarry Glen Ross, Looper, Sound of my Voice (!), Straw Dogs, Melancholia
Other favorites include: Pelle the Conqueror, The Matrix

Musical spectrum: Esperanza Spalding/Cocteau Twins to Skinny Puppy/Coheed and Cambria.
Recently listened to: Siouxsie & the Banshees, Stone Temple Pilots, Emmylou Harris, Dirty Projectors, Soufjan Stevens, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Metric
Most recently added to jogging playlist: My Chemical Romance
Favorite in jogging playlist: Guster!

Food likes: brunch, any ethnic cuisine, including German, Japanese, and Mexican, dessert
Food dislikes: waiter having to explain what my food tastes like, lima beans
Specialty: pancakes
The six things I could never do without
Winter, beautiful music, the early morning, raspberry danish twist, jaeger schnitzel, the Nextbus app.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a surprisingly large amount of time thinking about public transit planning. It just seems there must be a much cleverer way to get around than owning a car you drive once a month. It's a little odd, since it has nothing to do with my profession - though I guess I do ride the T a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? I am at home cooking dinner and watching a movie. On a good Friday night? I'm probably hanging out with friends, eating and drinking and talking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a terrible dancer! Actually I tend to get quite absorbed in the music, and I play air piano instead of dancing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You are a talented, brilliant, fearless woman deep in spirit and blessed with fathomless wisdom and generosity.

2. You are none of the above, but are just unbelievably hot.

3. You are neither of the above, but just know you are my dream girl.

4. You were just tucking into a plate of garlic-fried shrimp and Fino sherry when you happened to read my profile.