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53 M Santa Cruz, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:06pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, German (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I grew up in the north east, a medium-sized city that couldn't decide if it was east or mid west. it even had a bit of a southern twang only a few hours drive from the hills of West Virginia. In some ways I was mature for my age. I started thinking about big people questions at a young age. I remember as young as seven and eight sitting in the synagogue, questioning the existence of god, wondering why some grown-ups sometimes acted so childishly. I revel in seeing similar questioning glinting impishly in the wondering eyes of my own young children. In other ways, I matured kind of slowly. I was completely baby-faced until I was 20. These days I'm kind of furry.

At 17 I threw a backpack on my back and hitched around the country looking for god/dess know what. Living at the beach out of my 74 Chrysler Newport to enrolling in school at UC Santa Cruz I found it, and I've been spending the rest of my life figuring out what it was I had found. I have faith that I will arrive at a complete understanding of the discoveries of my curious, adventuresome youth.

I am salacious, flirtacious, and scrumpdiddlyicious
What I’m doing with my life
I'm new to town, new to online dating, nude to showering. Inspiring smiles, settling in, being a good dad and trying to make a positive impact.
I’m really good at
I enjoy expressing my thoughts, feelings and desire through writing, music and art. I'm a cartoonist writing goofy, somewhat bizarre jokes, you might find yourself titillated by my Titanism and cunning lingual stylings. I can juggle and play the ukelele.

I'm really good at remembering people, places and circumstances. I never forget a face and can remember details of events and conversations years later.
The first things people usually notice about me
People often notice my positive energy and enthusiasm. I'm an eternal optimist, open minded and curious. When I meet people with vastly different values and beliefs that seem diametrically opposed to my own, I remember that everyone is basically good, and we all have a basic need to be loved. People notice my openness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love stream of consciousness fiction and science, psychology and philosophical non-fiction. I like modern and impressionistic art, dark comedies and am drawn to jam bands like the dead, bluegrass and punk rock. Any art that is creative, inspired and from the heart turns me on. If I met an extraterrestrial who could only taste one thing, I'd recommend a nice juicy peach.
The six things I could never do without
my loving children, family, friends, quality time with the aforementioned, intimacy and a sense of making the world a better place.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whether the thoughts I am thinking are temporal, or if my rumination is an instantaneous expression of an unknowable source of inspiration, my thought process is merely an illusion of the passage of time.
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying quite conversation at a potluck or party, dancing to live music at a small local venue or spending time at home with friends and family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once saw God on TV. S/he was on a late- night infomercial selling truth and beauty. I placed an order. It comes in handy once in a while during deep philosophical intercourse, but the free Ginzu knives they threw in as a special offer have been particularly useful.

I'm into omphaloskepsis.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to make a new friend, or explore the possibility of developing a satisfying and sustaining intimate relationship.