Let's get real here. I am a woman who has grown children, grandchildren, I'm overweight, I smoke, and I've been separated from husband for 3-1/2 years because I can't afford to divorce him. I'm not much of a movie-goer and I'm not a gamer. See? I'm not perfect. You don't have to be either. Just be real, be honest.
Other than that, I'm a pretty nice person. I love to cook, volunteer regularly, read, garden, and camp. My friends are highly cherished and I consider many of them family. I'm not terribly geeky but I do "get" a lot of geek references.
Often, I'm kinky as hell but am looking for connection first. Not sex first. Mind your damned manners if you're going to message or IM me. (Can you tell that I'm tired of walking dicks that are on here just to get laid?)
Please be local, ask questions if you message me, and ask me out before I lose interest!