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soandsowhat

36 F Lake Wylie, SC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Underneath my outside face
There's a face that none can see.
A little less smiley,
A little less sure,
But a whole lot more like me.

-Shel Silverstein

A few words to describe me, in no particular order:

-witty
-adorable
-INFJ
-driven
-responsible
-loyal
-open
-closed
-passionate
-Capricorn
-day dreamer
-hyper-focused
-particular
-peculiar
-punctual
-goofy
-stable
-aware
-awesome
-sweet
-salty
-idealist
-reasonable
-contradiction
-burnt cheese

A few of my favorite things:

-coconut milk
-eskimo kisses
-head rubs
-vintage
-modern
-really big hugs
-firm handshakes
-trust
-scenery
-sunshine
-details
-spelling
-grammar
-white cheddar popcorn
-cold air
-scarves
-coffee
-sitting on my back deck
-koalas
-flea markets
-goat cheese
-ukelele
-forests
-creeks
-dresses
-red lipstick
-bad reality tv
-meat and potatoes
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, parenting, photographing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having conversations with people in my head and predicting the outcome when it happens in real life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends on what you're looking for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This section needs some work....

Some ear candy

Elvis Perkins
Jolie Holland
Josh Ritter
Sunny Day Real Estate
Tresspassers William
Modest Mouse
American Analog Set
Jessica Lea Mayfield
Neutral Milk Hotel
Thao
Weezer
Gillian Welch
Fleet Foxes
Bon Iver
Band of Horses
Arcade Fire
Pixies
My Morning Jacket
Robert Johnson
Muddy Waters
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Camera
2. Music
3. Hugs..the really good ones that squeeze the air out of you and align your vertebrae!
4. Eskimo kisses
5. Sunshine
6. Scenery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People and intentions.

How sad it is that some people don't know what a true connection feels like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking it all in. Or sleeping....Friday nights are for catching up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not incredibly private but I'm also not going to air my business online.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have something interesting to say.
You're emotionally self - aware and can communicate.
You're not married.
You're not looking for a fling.