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48 F Gaithersburg, MD

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:18pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
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Kind, caring, passionate, sensual, happy and fulfilled...but oh so aware there is more. Looking to bring passion, pure joy and laughter into the everyday. Doesn't matter what we are doing.

Part sophisticated, part sweat pants and boots, part eclectic. Just me...looking for you.

And striving for elegance always - yes, on the outside, but more importantly, on the inside. I also like to think sweat pants are elegant, and sexy.

Recently single (for real, the nice and friendly kind) and embracing life with my kids half time, just me the other half. Striving to be ever present for them, but also happy to get back to other things I love. Like running (fast around a track...not long distance, thank you), biking (long distance...ride with me?), reading all the books I keep buying (impossible to leave a book store with just one), and hopefully some new creative stuff, like photography (which moves me more than just about anything, well, okay, tied with awesome music and exceptional writing), or I'll just keep buying other people's.

Well, I guess that's all. Just a girl, looking for a guy, to connect with and enjoy one another's company, and ultimately see if maybe we have that special something together...undeniable spark, but we are completely at ease, completely content. Blissfully content :) You let me stare at you all day if I want to ;)

And maybe we even talk on the phone (yep, so old school, I know)...and don't want to hang up.

Oh, although I cannot travel half way around the world for weeks at a time (hmm, maybe 1 week), short trips to new places would be awesome. I also love road trips, to anywhere. Just let's stop for coffee first.

I also love how it seems okay to write sentence fragments these days, ha
What I’m doing with my life
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Well, currently I am reading all of your pretty darn well written essays! Seriously, very impressive...I especially love the charming humor and wit along with a passion for life. I am also making a note of all the books I need to read :) Otherwise, truly just embracing the newfound clarity I have about what is most important in life...simple happiness, laughter, living in the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Caring and kindness, kissing bruised knees and bumped foreheads,
editing anything I write at least 100 times (so check back often, ha), complimenting (you).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think I would prefer if you tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I love childhood memoirs. Angela's Ashes, Glass Castle and the Liar's Club are my all time favorites. Otherwise, a variety of fictional books with a good historic backdrop, including my most accomplished read, Pillars of the Earth. And, just finishing up Paul Auster's Winter Journal, perhaps the most brilliant writing I have ever come across. I guess he's my new favorite.

TV: Modern Family, Parenthood, Glee. I obviously need to check out all the new hot shows I keep reading about. (Update: hooked on Breaking Bad now, thanks for the tip!) Oh, and I guess I should add football, my Steelers, and baseball...and the PGA's four majors (yep, glued for days).

Music: Singer songwriters...Ed Sheeran (can't get enough!), Sam Smith, James Morrison, Sara Bareilles, Jason Mraz. O.A.R., All-American Rejects, The Script, OneRepublic, Eminem, Josh Groban. And going back a bit, but favorites still...The Allman Brothers, Elton John, Bad Company, Paul Rodgers, Jethro Tull, Tesla. And musicals...Wicked!

Food: Pasta, Thai, spice, French toast covered in powdered sugar, Starbucks Chai (may as well just make it a food group), and just about every summer fruit you can name, yum.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Awesome coffee, awesome music, awesome kids and their kisses, laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Family, kids, friends...

The children's book I hope to write someday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually home enjoying the down time...but admittedly likely wishing for someone to hang with on Saturday, maybe for an actual real live date (that's where you come in :)).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not so private, but I do have a thing for hats, especially if worn well ;)
You should message me if
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You want to. You are desiring something real. You want to get off this site, like me.

Oh, and maybe for sure if you have a sense of stye :)