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socalJ7

38 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:12pm
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Army brat. Born in NJ. Then, I moved to Germany, Italy, AZ, Seoul, GA and landed here in LA in 98'. I have a lot of family here. They're pretty awesome. My parents infected me with a travel bug before I could walk. Approaching 20 countries and hoping to add to it.
I moved to LA to get into the family business. Yes, film. A long day of shooting, editing or music editing feeds my soul.
I have 3 year old boy/girl twins. They rock! Being a dad is incredibly challenging, but it's also more rewarding and fun than I could have ever imagined.
I'm a bleeding heart, sarcastic gentleman. What?
I know a little about a lot. I can have a conversation with almost anyone. If I don't know what you're talking about, I'm listening and learning.
I've filled this section out 4 times. I've decided that I'm good at telling people about others, but filling in this box about myself has proven to be quite challenging. For now, I think I'll stay with this version.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it with my twins

Making films (mainly documentaries).

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I’m really good at
Being empathetic. Quoting the Toy Story trilogy and a ton of other Disney favorites. I'd like to think I'm good at making films.
Being a dad.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either that I talk a lot or that I'm a little shy. Depends on where someone meets me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wow… where to start? My tastes are very eclectic.

BOOKS: The Alchemist, 1984, Where the Wild Things Are, Green Eggs and Ham, Oh, The Places You Will Go, Catcher in the Rye, Bag of Bones, Into Thin Air, Leaves of Grass, educational books on Photography/Film

MOVIES: Platoon, Apocalypse Now, Some Like It Hot, Blazing Saddles, The Princess Bride, Seven, Bottle Rocket, The Devil's Backbone, Toy Story Trilogy, Argo, Silver Linings Playbook, The Fog of War, The Labyrinth, Ghengis Blues, The Civil War

TV: Dexter, Simpsons, College Football, Mash, Sopranos, Six Feet Under

MUSIC: Basically anything. My iTunes catalog (Alphebetical by first) starts with Aaron Neville and ends with 10000 Maniacs
Anything Eddie Vedder and/or Dave Grohl
do.

FOOD: Love it. Eat it. From a good burger to injera and wat
The six things I could never do without
So, like the letters they just give you at the end of Wheel of Fortune, I'm assuming the food, water and air are givens.

My twins/family, music, films, camera, friends, laughter

I would like to think i could live without my iPhone, but the idea of being "disconnected" is both freeing and anxiety inducing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of things.

Why do so many women on here have pictures with Richard Simmons?
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing typical here. Some Fridays I have two little rascals, and others I don't. On the days I don't, I may grab dinner and/or drinks with friends, catch a movie or watch one from the comforts of my couch. I'm somewhat of a homebody. But I'm still adjusting to the free Fridays. I haven't seen a good live show in a long time. That would be fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's not really "private", but I have 9 tattoos (4 are quite large). None are visible in my usual T-shirt and jeans.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you want to. Who am I to tell you what to do?