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socalrenman

47 M Costa Mesa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a rational, value-oriented, and down-to-Earth SWM looking for a long-term relationship with the possibility of marriage. I've lived most of my life on the East Coast, but I've been out here in Southern California for about 15 years.

I also have a work background in music since I did live concert engineering and I've also worked behind the scenes in college radio. I've listened to most every major style of music, so my favorites aren't limited to a particular style. I do tend to listen to contemporary music more often.

I'm a long-time Objectivist NOT a Libertarian! What this really means is that I'm more interested in connecting the why to the how rather than just advocating for taking particular actions regardless of motives.

I tend to be opinionated, but I keep my opinions to myself unless queried. I have long-term goals, but I think I've become a bit better at setting interim steps.
What I’m doing with my life
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I make money trading securities. (It's the best job I've ever had!) I have great independence and flexibility, but I have to stay on my toes if I want to make the most of my portfolio. I'm finding that in the course of my work, I'm getting a good overview of how the world works. Consequently, I'm a bit better informed on economics, politics, and culture.

I'm also back in school studying computer programming for a second Bachelor's degree or a Master's degree. I'm also trying to continue with musical work.

I moved into a different part of Orange County and got a house for rent!!! I'm still house and car shopping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing and day trading!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: ..not enough favorites, but some are _Atlas Shrugged_ and _The Fountainhead_ by Ayn Rand. I used to read Arthur C. Clarke as a schoolkid, but I lost interest in his work, so I guess I need to catch up on Robert Heinlein's work.... It's been awhile since I read anything by John Waters, but I swear that _Crackpot_ is the funniest book I've ever read!

Movies: ...not enough favorites, but _The Mask of Zorro_ is my #1 favorite of the past dozen years or so. I also love _Blade Runner_, early James Bond movies, early Mel Brooks movies are good as far as comedy goes....

Music: ...maybe too many?!? Again, I've heard thousands of bands, but these days, I mainly listen to Italian and Japanese progressive rock as well as DEATH & TAXE$ (with Tom Shannon), FIELDS OF THE NEPHILIM, KING CRIMSON, TANGERINE DREAM, and Klaus Schulze. (_Farscape_ seems like it will be okay, but it's not going to be the best work for either Schulze or Lisa Gerrard.)

Food: Yes, please... I mainly prefer American, Italian, Thai, and Indian, but I've tried many other cuisines.

Television: I watch financial programming (of course) and some sports (but overwhelmingly tennis.)

I used to watch (in no particular order):
_Nash Bridges_
_Mythbusters_ (though I don't care for the newer engineers)
_Magnum P.I._
_Hawaii 5-0_ (the original series, of course!)
_Monty Python's Flying Circus_
_The Vicar of Dibley_
_Becker_

Really, any BBC comedy is likely to be worth watching. (By the way, I consider BBC news to be mildly interesting though it's patently hard Leftist propaganda!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If we're talking about things as in _objects_ (as opposed to traits, etc.), then the most important things would include (in no particular order): 1) Computer technology 2) Audio recording technology 3) Books

....etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
work, romance, and the state of the nation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
financial data collecting, reading online, writing code, and listening to streaming Internet music.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you have positive interests which you are passionate about. You are serious about your work, and you have a pro-human sense of humor.