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socalrpl

54 / M / straight / Single

Davis, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Latin (Okay)

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I am at peace, amused, and borderline brilliant.

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My Self-Summary

Ah well, sometimes things don't work out.

A little about me: I'm really nice. I mean it. Really - but I am no pushover. I have no anger in my heart - there is no room - it is already full. I am extremely patient and nearly impossible to offend. I believe in love - all else is false. I like simple things and honest people. I believe in playfulness - it is an expression of joy in life.

Six things I think:

1) If money is your first love, I cannot, and will not be.
2) If you are religious, and believe that your religion is right, you're wrong - for me.
3) If you are politically conservative - grow up. I don't date children.
4) If you believe your government, or the mainstream media, even a little bit, you are probably too naive for me.
5) If you have anger in your heart, or feel the right to "get even" with those who have offended you, I am not for you.
6) If you think relationships are hard work, we won't work.

What I’m doing with my life

Working, watching, waiting. Being creative, always. Thinking about thinking about thinking. Hoping to find someone with similar beliefs and understanding - not just aspirations. My words may well resonate within you, and may indeed represent what you would like to be, but if it is not what you already are... Please, no dilettantes.

I’m really good at

Generosity of spirit. Kindness to all. Self-awareness. Making people smile. Being completely honest and loving at the same time. Seeing all the way through.

The first things people usually notice about me

I smile a lot. I move well.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A) Beelzebub's Tales to his Grandson; anything by Lagerkvist, Hesse, Camus, etc... B) Most movies are a waste of time, but there are some great ones C) I like all music except modern "Country" music D) Simple things

The six things I could never do without

My daughter, my heart and mind, conscious maturation, hope, my yesterdays, and NOW.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

ΓΝΩθΙ ΣΕΑΥΤΟΝ (Noscete Ipsum) Know Thyself

On a typical Friday night I am

At home, with friends, or out and about. Nothing special.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I admit nothing. I am innocent.

You should message me if

You are a grown up (so, obviously, no conservatives), you do not harbor anger, you believe in love, and you like yourself (prerequisite to caring about others). Above all, you seek to know and be honest with yourself.

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