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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 23
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Two-year college
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
True Gemini. I enjoy many subjects and activities. I work several jobs, just to keep myself from being bored. I enjoy the company of most anyone, but am looking for the companionship of an intelligent, confident, and *independent woman*.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
And unwittingly gaining weight...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. I did so professionally for 20 years and am college educated in the field as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Presence, Height, Eyes, Style, Intellect, Kindness, Smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The things I currently admire:
Book - The Song of Ice and Fire series by George R. R. Martin. (Still haven't watched a single episode of the TV series.) As well as The Godslayer Chronicles series by James Clemens. Also, I am thankful that Brandon Sanderson finally finished off the very long and, at times, somewhat dull Wheel of Time series originally written by the late Robert Jordan. In the meantime, I am re-reading the Dune series by Frank Herbert (<-- Pure Genius) and just completed the quick yet very entertaining Ready Player One by Ernest Cline.
Movie - John Woo's Hard Boiled starring Chow Yun-Fat is currently in my DVD Player. Which followed: Snatch, LoTR, Serenity, Firefly, Caddyshack, The Whole Nine Yards, Syriana, Thank You for Smoking. Spaceballs holds a very special place in my heart.
Show - I recently used the serialized retelling of the Arthurian tale, titled Merlin, as a means to induce sleep. Which has nothing to do with my strong recommendation that others watch it. Farscape was a very fun and terribly sexy journey, yes sexy, even with Jim Henson's puppeteers behind the scenes. Which followed: Caprica and a multitude of Funimation licensed anime. Also, I religiously watch (that is to say that I watch when it benefits me yet claim to do so daily) several netcasts on the TWiT Network. As mentioned above: I have yet to see Game of Thrones. I am currently having a philosophical debate within myself about how kosher it is to write TV scripts based on extremely popular books in a series that you have yet to finish writing even though your unwittingly loyal biblio-fanatics are crying for completion...
Music - Varies greatly. From metal to jazz, classic rock to classical, and a sprinkling of several techno genres across the top. I once used (same username) to serve my varied aural diet, but now Google Play Music has proven itself far more capable of cooking me up a tuned feast.
Food - Pan-Asian. Something about the artistry and Ayurveda-like beliefs that make it so much fun to create. But really, as an aspiring chef, I do it all and thrive on the challenge of half stocked pantry mad science.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• Friends (Without good company, I would fall like the House of Usher)
• Freedom (Both existentially and literally)
• Honesty (In myself as well as others)
• Conversation (Deep or drunken)
• Food (For motivation and passion as well as sustenance)
• Sarcasm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make my OKC profile more witty and funnner?

Why can't I create more hours in a day and more days in a week so I can actually do all the activities I want to do?

Where did all the flowers go?

What am I still doing in bed?!

When am I going to find time for a table top RPG?! and...

Who's going to join me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to figure out what to do on a typical Friday night.
For the first time in almost 20 years I have landed a job which does not necessarily require me to work on Friday nights. I simply don't know what to do with myself. Suggestions are welcome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is probably listed somewhere on my FetLife profile (same name), but for those of you not on FL:
I am very Sex Positive, a friend of the Kink and LGBTQ communities, and am very much in love with my Girlfriend with whom I have an open-relationship that which is stronger and healthier than the decade-long monogamous marriage I was once beholden to.
You should message me if
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You want a new friend to share any or all of the following: games, sports, exercise, jokes, conversation, fears, dreams, drinks, dinner, breakfast, evenings, nights, lust, love, and life.